have you experienced being hit by your boyfriend/girlfriend?
By tantal25
@tantal25 (838)
United States
July 5, 2007 10:28am CST
have you experienced being hit by you bf/gf?? what did you do when that happened?
me i have experienced that before, with my ex, and i broke up with him because of that. it's just that he wanted to remove my belly pierce but i don't want to, so he hit me and he wanna pull the earring! ouch! luckly i was able to escape from him by running away from him. mind you, he hit me at my house and he had the guts to do it because he knew my mom and dad wasn't there.
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5 responses
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
5 Jul 07
I don't know you're gonna believe this, but you don't have to if you won't..
I am a man, as mostly known to all, it is us who were the one's who do the "hurting" part. But I guess my experience is very different, I was the one who got hurt, physically.
My previous relationship was brutal, so to speak. The girl is very dominating and physical, I have been slapped and punched at times. I know that I'm sounding like a stupid fool here, like a martyr, but I think it's because of love or maybe because I just have to control my temper. She even punches herself, sort of making self-inflicted wounds so people would symphatize her.
That's the time that I gave up on here, I realized that she's not worth for me. She'll just bring sorrow and misery, very different from what I want to do for my future.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
5 Jul 07
I had a couple of relationships with older guys when I was very young that were severely abusive, that I stayed in mostly because I needed places to live, when my situation at home was even more scary. However, once I grew up a little and started learning that I didn't have to be treated that way, I made a promise to myself not to ever allow it again.
There was a very short-lived relationship when I was 18 or so where a guy hit me, once, and I mentioned it to a friend who got him pounded down by the entire football team that he was on. He avoided me after that.
My current husband would never, ever harm me.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
9 Jul 07
Well, I am so sorry to hear that but I am glad that you are no longer with him. I haven't experienced that before and I would never stay with the guy either if he ever does that to me.
@buri2_jaemon (619)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 07
being hit by my girlfriend??? just for fun or jokes i have like slap her but not with full strength but for jokes and she also doing the same thing to me, but it doesn't mean our like violanced but we doing this just for jokes..
