It's hard to love someon who can never be yours, right?

loving means letting the person you love to grow even if growing means going away from you... a quote i read when i was still in my first year college... i don't remember the writer but the line got me... it's true... if you love someone you have to let them go if they want to... we don't have to be selfish... others would say that loving someone and seeing them leave hurts... its true... but then again maybe his not the right one for you... maybe God is just trying to open you up for the right one... He was just trying to mold you up to someones better... someone He thinks is best for you... we sometimes think that the one we are with now is the one we should be for the rest of our lives... we believe that this is the right one and didn't want to let go that person anymore... its just that some of us wanted to hold that person until they felt they were being hold in there neck... wherein the other person would try to go out of the relationship... i think what should be done is that when your partner want to go give them what they want... if they returns back then they are yours to keep ... if not then other person is there for you...

it really hurts so much if you love someone but can never be your yours.. but you can't fool and lie to your self if you really love someone.. ayt? but if you really love that perso then you must consider and accept those things that you were not meant for each other. just wait for the right time and right love.. maybe your right man is havin' a delayed flight to you.. (lol) hehehe

It's really hard & hurts so much to love someone that can never be yours especially if he's owned by someone else already.. Maybe, all you have to do is to forget the feelings you have for him as early as possible coz no way that he can reciprocate your feelings, you'll just get hurt more.. Someone out there is waiting for you better than he and will love you more coz he's God given to you..

Is there someone in your life who's not giving u the love you deserve I can't imagine that. I have people who love to spend time with me well my friends and my bf he misses me when we don't see eachother he tells me he does miss me. I love talking with him as well as my friends there's some I can't live without wow I hope u find someone who wants to see u and cares about u everyone needs that and people need love.

loving someone that can never be yours is really depressing but i believe that every person has it's own partner that they call soulmate. Better wait for your soul mate to find the happiness you want. Just look around maybe that person is just near you or even infront of you.

Its not at all hard. I am talking out of experience. I know it hurts. But still those little moments when chance favours us are real treasures. Those strong feeling of love will give us power to move on with life. Its really good to love even when that person dosent love us back

Yes it is i know how you feel, but no one can control feelings, you can try but they are still there, but if you love them enough you yourself just try to satisfied with what little crumbs you get so to speak, I guess that is better than nothing.

Well, it`s hard, nobody argues here. But if we transform this feeling in unconditional love, may be it will help us to overcome the pain.

yes, it is really very hard and very painful especially when you know that he cant love you because he already have someone else. but dont be sad. i believe that if its not really meant to be then someone out there is really meant for you, you just have to find that someone.

If you know that you could not have that person then why should strive for that person. I'd rather forget about that person and look for someone else. Remember this, do not be anxious about who would be the right person for you. God has fashioned someone just to match and you will see and meet him in the right place and at the right time. Just do not worry about it. Be patient.