Do you get angry easily?
By tracy1985
@tracy1985 (654)
China
July 17, 2007 10:00am CST
I do not like that kind of men who get angry easily and even to quarrel or fight,I think they are too crude to stay with.
But sometimes,we can not control ourselves stopping getting angry,as for me,I sometimes do that,few days ago,I met something bad and got angry,after that I threw my cellphone away,I really did not why I did that....I can not control myself.
What about you?
Do you get angry easily?
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48 responses
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 07
there are days when i get angry easily, and some days i just couldn't be bothered and try to be patient. usually when i'm angry i will sulk. i like to avoid people when i'm feeling really angry because i don't want to be snappish at anyone, for no reason. however i do like to talk to friends that i'm close to so that i am able to vent it out, else i'll explode! :P
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@granger1900 (125)
• United States
17 Jul 07
There is no such thing as a bad emotion, anger included. It is what we do with our feelings that is important. Certainly, it is better to express and acknowledge our feelings than to stuff them down. They must be released so we can have other feelings. It is the behaviors of how we express our feelings that have consequences. And anger is no excuse for verbal, emotional, mental or physical abuse including threats and throwing things. How deal with anger is often a learned behavior. A big part of anger management is deciding on what behaviors you think will work best for you in dealing with anger. Sometimes, anger shows itself because there are other feeling that are not being expressed, like pain and fear.
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@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
17 Jul 07
I was always taught not to get mad ,yell or throw things. Most of my life I have kept my thoughts to myself. I was once married to a man who yelled for long periods of time. He loved to yell at me for nothing. I could do 99 things right and he would yell for the one thing I did not do to his satisfaction. I get angry easily. I'm angry now, but I try to keep it in check. Yelling doesn't help. Talking doesn't cause no body listens. When I throw a tantrum it is rare but people take notice.
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
18 Aug 07
When a person reaches to such stage. He or she should know that he or she became half mad. This critical situation arises when a person can not control his or her temperament. He or she becames dangerous at that moment. Even his face and other body language becomes strange and horribe. He or she starts to cry and some time he drop some thing against wall to break that in pieces.
A person with strong temperament could controll himself. And such people or such person is rewarded to be called as cool minded or a descant person. Angry people could not adjust themselve in society and they did not get popularity. So we should try to control our habit of anger with a cool mind. It is possible as inmpossible is not found in this world.
@opinione (749)
• Italy
17 Jul 07
From time to time...
I think that I'm in general a controlled person, but, sometimes, as to everyone I can get angry. I ate traffic and people who do not respect the safety rules: I just can't stand them! A danger for themselves and other people.
At the Church one Sunday, our priest -in one of his sermons- revealed us that when he had to drive in the traffic he simply become a beast!
So that his superior told him joking, that while driving he should dress different in order not to be recognized to be a clergyman...
bye myLot friend
Never be angry, be happy.
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@Ricko82 (584)
• Philippines
18 Aug 07
That's what anger does to you. It stops you from thinking rationally, but if you can just take a moment and let few seconds pass by before you say anything or left a finger, you'll find out that you can control your anger. Just remember, when your rage is overwhelming, don't do anything, don't say anything for few seconds or few minutes. Let it pass by and you'll regain your control after that.
@jayalaksmi (1039)
• India
13 Aug 07
I also get angry but i always try to control my anger but still i could not do it and sometimes i do something for which i regret later. But in whole i don't get angry easily but when i get angry it becomes difficult for me handle it.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
13 Aug 07
Anger is a very natural feeling and when I am provoked by someone, I do feel angry, it is another matter...I do not show it everytime to the othe fellow, who made me angry. I have not seen a person...who does not get angry on any issue.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
13 Aug 07
I get angry but try to control myself. If it goes beyond control, then I will shout. But getting angry is human nature unless we have very much control over our emotions, which is very rare quality.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
17 Aug 07
I seldom lose my temper like that. Usually I can control myself well not to easily lose temper. I try to keep a happy mood without getting angry.
@az03r4 (913)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 07
Hi tracy? Firstly let me say that u are "beautiful"..
I seldom get angry, except inside my family coz in our family we used to be open. Even when someone really2 hurt me, I used to try to reverse smoothly so she/he not getting offended on me. If I really in mad condition, the worst thing I used to do is yell then broke small thing useless near me. that's all.
@unisis (1673)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 07
I do not have a temper like yours can be angry easily. I have been having problems going off on people. I have been speaking my mind and not so nice at times. I feel I do not get mad easier than ever before. I also will tell someone off now where I would not have the courage to do it before.
Mom is getting worse in her actes in acting like a child. I have been making her accountable
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
18 Jul 07
Hi,
I think everyone has the tendency to get angry easily at times. However, the key is to make sure that this is not something that happens on a regular basis. I di used to get angry quite easily, but I have totally mellowed in life. I am not sure why...but I am sure I like myself and my life a lot more since this has happened.
cheers,
@jmicy1029 (197)
• China
21 Jul 07
I used to, but I saw a movie named SEVEN,and then changed mind.Have you ever seen it,maybe you can find the answer.It is horrible to be angry.... Wrath ,exactly.
@joyprince (36)
• China
23 Jul 07
I am very affable and humor. And can get on well with all my friends.
:)