Has pride ever gotten in the way?
By pauloahorro
@pauloahorro (232)
Philippines
July 18, 2007 12:34pm CST
Has pride ever gotten in the way of any relationship you've had past or present be it on your part or your partner's? For me there have been some instances when it has gotten in the way, all of them involved the both of us refusing to give in into each other eventhough we wanted so badly to just kiss and make up, it just felt like if you budged you lost.
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@cheezcake (62)
• Philippines
18 Jul 07
we all have prides. but i'm blessed that my loved one is humble enough to say "can we talk?" even if it's my fault. and by that he taught me that it will not cost you to take the first move of reconcillation. for me its a very brave thing to do.
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@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 07
Well, I guess that's normal in every human being to be righteous. After all, who wants to be wrong right? The question is, would you let it get in the way of losing something or someone that really matters to you? I know I can be pretty stubborn and I have let arguments go on and on just because I don't wanna admit my faults. But then if I stop and think about it, it's really stupid to make a big deal out of nothing just because of pride. I've learned how to deal with it before it gets any worse. I wish you all the best~! :D
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Yes, that game. I haven't played it forever because I realized if I don't give in I would probably never have a good relationship ever again.