what would a wife do with an obsessed X-girlfriend?

i suggest you talk to your husband about the matter... looks like he was still having a communication with his ex that's why she knew when you two are fighting. and for your husband, why does he have to open it up to her? i mean, shouldn't he just keep it to both of you when you are fighting? i think that problems with relationships should be private and not to be talked about with other people. easy to say but hard to do in my part if that would also happen to me, because i cannot promise that i'll not reply back to her messages because i'm a hot tempered person lol.. but in your case, i guess your decision is right, that you just ignore her because if you replied back and talked trash, you'll just ignite fire. my advice to you is if you knew that the emails is from her, you just erase it coz as i can see, she was only verbally abusing you like talking trash because she was bitter and she still can't believe that you are the woman whom his exbf married. so you go girl! you should be proud of yourself that you are the woman he choses to be with. she was only sending you hate mails coz that is the only way she can have her revenge. if you don't read emails from her, you'll make her tired that you ignore her and at the same time you prevent yourself to be hurt by her messages. hope my advice works =)

Do not reply to those emails! You are doing right by not doing that. If you were to do that it would just keep her going. I think you are dealing with a psycho that is for sure. I guess that is why she is an ex-girlfriend. However, I would make hard copies of those emails and keep them filed. Just in case it does escalate and she goes further. you never know with people like that. They could be dangerous. In any event, you want to make sure you have your ducks in a row if you have to go to the next level and report her to the authorities. People do deserve second chances and I am glad to know that you are mature enough to realize that and be able to do it. Take care and good luck!

Hi, Be sincere toyou hubby and tell these to him he is has the patience to listen or just use the chance when is more relaxed. Never go for a quarell. Still things will get right in long run. Never show your gurdge to that women. Hope you will get a positive change. shamrack

You are right to just ignore her but I was wondering, Does she have childern with him? She is having trouble letting go of him and I was wondering if they are still connected in some way. If their are childern involved then it isn't so simple. His childern have the right to be in his life and he has a right to those childern no matter what. Everyone should put their differences aside for the sake of the childern. Vicki