Remote Control relationship what do you think?

What does your heart tell you my friend? I know I shouldn't teach you to suck eggs but weigh up the pros and cons, and remember you only get one chance in life! You already see the relationship for what it is and are going into it with eyes wide open, you know the score, be happy my dear friend and do what YOUR heart tells you and enjoy if it lasts then great! But take it slowly, tut what am I like eh Mr Careful!

I personally do not trust online romances and long distance relationships usually do not work unless the couple has been together a long time and knows how to keep the romance alive from afar.

I think that platonic long distance love is very good up to the point when you are going to meet each other. Living together involves much more than just platonic love. Also keep in mind that he has two kids. I wouldn't worry about the fact that he is older, but it can be really difficult for you to deal with his kids. I am not saying that it will not work; it can be not easy...

What happened to the person you liked liranglgo? (the one you was going to ask out?) :( I can't say, I don't know the situation and it really depends on many things. Normally I suggest listening to how you both feel, example a friend of mine from canada liked someone from texas. (they both had kids) with a mother and father who'd also miss them, so they didn't do it. It's nice to hear he's ready to move back, maybe it could work? ~Joey

I think it's cool that he wants to meet you. Do what you think it's right and if it doesn't feel right you should tell him. I have always heard that things can happen but do becareful.

Sorry but I'm not sure what you mean by "remote control" relationship. If you mean that he is very manipulative and controls everything in your life, that's not a very good sign. If you mean long distance relationship, well, there's nothing wrong with that. It just so happens that you're in a certain place and he's in a different place. So give it a chance and see what happens.

Anything can work out if it is done carefully and with love. My fiance and I met over the internet (I'm in Ontario Canada, he's in Arizona). There's a few decades between us, but what the heck!! We got along great from the start, and our relationship developed from there. We are now engaged, and couldn't be happier.

This is not a impossible relationship but it is a very hard one. As I am sure you are aware of you need to proceed with caution. The age difference is not a big thing. But if he is ten years older than you some of his views may be different than yours as far as the way to raise children. You can not know in one meeting even if he stays for a few weeks whether you are compatiple or not. Remember most of the time when people meet for the first time they put their best foot forward. I know you have kept in touch by way of remote control but remember that meeting in person face to face is different. I hope this works out for you but just be careful is all I am saying. If it does work out that would be romantic and something to remember always. You didn't whether you have children also or not.

I feel that you have coined up a very interesting term - "remote control" relationship. He seems to be rather sincere as of now, at least he is willing to come to israel to meet you, and more importantly he is ready to move in to Israel. If age is not a concern, I feel this is a good opportunity to check it out. Perhaps give both of you a chance and see if it works out. You have my blessings.