Did you ever fight with your neighbour? Was it settled?
By buchi_bulla
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
India
July 23, 2007 5:52am CST
When I shifted from quarters to my own house, there was no place to keep my car. So I kept opposite to my house, on the road. That was on the wallside,(outside on the road) of my neighbour. It was not even parked before her gate. She picked up quarrel and said she has to construct some thing and has to keep sand, stones etc. outside and I have to remove my car. Actually she does not have right to say any thing as it it road and not obstructing her path in any way. What to do, I had to give away my car for scrap urgently.
Did you fight with your neighbour or misunderstanding at any time with them? Did you resolved that ?
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4 responses
@cyberopjames (483)
• United States
23 Jul 07
I fight all the time with my neighbour all the time. She is the type of person that likes to stick her finger in where it dose not belong. She has to know what is going on everywhere. She sent someone over to find out what pets I have in my home. If my lover and I get in a fight she has to know why. My lover ended up in the hospital one night because he was sick. She called him to tell him that I come home with alot of bags, but what she did not know is that I had gone to the store to get pet food and food for the house. I had a snake that she had killed by the local police because it had gotten out. She was watching my home while we went on vacation for the weekend. Someone left the door open on the snake's cage. She then took the police and animal care into my home to show them that I had another snake that was in a 55 gal tank. Animal Care took my snake and charged us $250.00 to get her back. Like I said she was the one watching my pets. Next thing you know the Homeowner's board told me that I have to get rid of all of my animals. I live in a moble home community, so I own the house but not the land that it sits on. I told them that what is in my home is my problem and to leave me alone. I hate it when someone tells me what i can and can not have in my home. It is still an on going fight with her. She keeps trying to find out if I have a snake so that she can tell me to get rid of it. God knows that I hate that. Of course I have not told anyone about he pot partys that she has every weekend.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
24 Jul 07
Even our neighbours are pretty gossipy. They must know where we are going, from where we are coming, what we bought and bringing home. They must ask me where I am going out and I hate this question. I feel if someone asks me that question, that work will not be done. Am I asking them any such question? Why should they know all about us? What to do it is all in the game when we live in the society.
@firumon (501)
• India
23 Jul 07
Hi friend,
I'm really not interested to fight with anyone.. But as you know the circumstances changes a persons behaviour.. I fought with my neighbour due to some problems which occured accidently.. I will describe it..
My neighbour have a chicken shop.. They throw their waste in sea which is near to us. One day we have noticed that something is smelling bad.. My brother start searching from where it is coming and atlast found that it coming from our back last field... After examining it, we have found that it is chicken waste... My brother is a stubborn.. He start fighting with that neighbour... The main person is not there. So he have gone to the shop. Then i don't know what had happen after that... Within minutes, one of his labour come and take that all waste from there...
But the problem solving is in my account.. I went to that owner and talk him with very calm and quite... I said that he have done a big wrong.. But he replied with sentiments that it done with out his knowledge. One of his labour have done it... After that it solved.. It occured just a month ago. Now we are best friends.. The chicken needed for our house is buy from there as previous....
Thank you dear friend... Take care....
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
24 Jul 07
You seem to be well balanced person in this young age itself. It is good. But certain times without our mistake fights do occur what to do?
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
23 Jul 07
No, I like to play the fool with my arrogant neighbours! sometimes they think am really a fool! They do certain things to annoy me but I just look on as if nothing has gone wrong. I understand them as people who like a lot of trouble but we dont fan trouble! At the end of the day, it is them who turn out to be real fools because the for all the trouble they have tried to find, the have found none with us!
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
23 Jul 07
Very nice. Paying in their own coins. There is a four line poetry by Saint Kabir, When I went in search of bad, I did not find any bad person, When I searched in me, nobody is more worse than me. Like this they wanted to fool you, and in turn they themselves got fooled.
@abhilashrocks (102)
• India
23 Jul 07
I dont fight with my neighbours.We are very friendly.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
23 Jul 07
A good neighbourly relationship is very very necessary. I did not fight with my neighbour. She fought with me. Silently I removed my car to avoid unnecessary fight.
