We all have our flaws.

@draco666 (174)
United States
July 24, 2007 4:32pm CST
We all have are flaws no matter which way you cut it. So what do you think is your biggest or the one you just hate about your self. I tend to be the biggest airhead at times. The simplest things seem to elude me with out file yet my friends say I am very smart but lack common sense if there is such a thing.
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@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
24 Jul 07
hmm as for me...sometimes i tend to become bossy.. i get pissed easily.. on the contrary one of my flaws is also being too nice sometimes that other people can fool me easily hehe
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@draco666 (174)
• United States
24 Jul 07
Having a big heart can get you in to a lot of sorrow. I know that one for a fact I was once like that but my heart has harden as time goes on. I only let a select few in. Being bossy and getting angry can also put you in to a lot of bad places I was there once also. I learned that I was simply impatient with my self. I started to meditate and observing others like me. Through that I learned how to control my anger. The reason I did this was because my anger forced me to become irrational I was one of the ones that forget way I was fighting in the first place. I didn't like that at all.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
24 Jul 07
Well I feel I have some physical flaws but other than that I am perfect in every way. Naaaa! I tend to be a control freak that thinks way to far ahead that I have to learn to stop and smell the flowers. I also have an addictive personality so I need to watch my behavior. Wow I sound bad....
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@draco666 (174)
• United States
24 Jul 07
You don't sound bad as I said everybody has there flaws and you have one up on most people. You know them and work on them. That is a very good way to be it shows strength and says a lot about a lot a person.
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• United States
25 Jul 07
Good question draco. I have many flaws. It seems that you add at least one new one for every year of life; but the good part of that is you are then able to call them "quirks" or "eccentricities" and then they become acceptable to the public. However....in one of my discussions today, I had a responder that pretty much told me that it was my fault that MyLot is falling apart because it is my responsibility to give negative ratings and to report inappropriate behaviors and posts. I guess the responder has a valid point; but my way of thinking is that I simply don't rate that comment at all, but tell the person why I have not rated it. I don't want to change my way of doing things; so I guess perhaps being stubborn, rigid, prideful, etc. are all what you could call my flaws. However.....If MyLot wants to pay me to do "dirty and covert work", that's a different story. My point is we are all here to share and maybe make a few friends and a few pennies. ~Donna
@draco666 (174)
• United States
27 Jul 07
Very interesting to say the least. From what you say it seems your "flaws" are you strengths. Which I do believe is possiable as odd as it may sound. Some people can use there faults to there advantge and you seemed to be one of the rare ones. Good luck on the covert op by the way.
@Angela07 (202)
• United States
24 Jul 07
your right. I think we all have flaws it's just some of us have more flaws than others do. Personally,I think...wait.i know i have alot of flaws. i have a big nose. I hate my smile. i think my daughter has some of these attributes.
@draco666 (174)
• United States
24 Jul 07
When it comes to physical flaws I have a far different take on things. Culture and region has a lot to do with views on beauty. Using the ageless cliche beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I have been called strange on my idea of beauty and what it is. This being physical, of course. I like Shakespeare's satire on beauty. While I cannot remember the name of the sonnet off head it poked fun of the current view on sexiness. He made a poem about an olive skinned women that seemed to of no noble blood that he almost made out to be a goddess in this day and age but was ugly in his time. Once again just my 2 cents. Only thing I do know is when you smile it amplifies any beauty 100 fold.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Jul 07
My biggest flaw is I tend to talk too much, and not listen enough.
@draco666 (174)
• United States
24 Jul 07
I am tend to be the opposite in most cases. I leave by the saying "better to sit and be thought a fool then open your mouth and confirm." No disrespect intended at all. But I am wondering way do you think you talk a lot? Also why do you consider a bad thing. In all cases I don't see it as the bad thing it can be very good it times.
@lucyem (120)
• United States
25 Jul 07
My biggest flaw is my raging redhead temper! Normally I'm fine. But with my husband and his family especially, I blow up at the smallest things. This happens the most when they're challenging a belief or decision of mine, and happens more and more now that I'm making parenting decisions involving our son. (Not that I make them alone, but I take it harder than my husband does when people question the decions we make for him.) I fight with my husband all the time, simply because I don't know what to do with the rage/depression I feel sometimes, and then I don't remember why we were fighting. Fortunately, I realize this and am working on it, and he realizes it too and forgives me. But it takes a lot out of me and makes me feel stupid.
@draco666 (174)
• United States
27 Jul 07
Anger seems to be a coomon issue. In my view, I believe most "angry" people are simply impatient. As with all faults it can be worked through. I had a bad anger problem for a time but as I learned to give my self space and time it slowly faded.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
24 Jul 07
There is left and right brained thinking...very interesting reading and so yes...you can be booksmart and streetdumb. I am also very airheaded but I am used to it and all the remarks and jokes. What I really really hate about myself is that I am far too sensitive. Sometimes when someone has really hurt me, I tend to react in what appears to be anger but the truth is I am just deeply hurt. It is something that I am working on. Verbal communication has never come easy for me and I really do need to work on this. That is just one in many many complaints I have about myself.
@draco666 (174)
• United States
24 Jul 07
I am very close with someone like you and I do understand where your coming from. Just be patient with our self and yes, I know thats the hardest thing to do at times but it helps a lot. I do agree with the left-right thing to the T. Most importantly don't to hard on yourself. Everybody has faults none greater then the other. Life is a school and we are all learning as we go along. Just my 2 cents