do you always remember Birthdays ? of your husband/kids/relatives and friends?
By butterfly39
@butterfly39 (3904)
Philippines
July 25, 2007 12:23am CST
I came from a big family and I'm so lucky because I memorized their birthdays...
of course my kids, close friends, and some relatives...I just wondering why my husband can't even remember my birthday...so sick of him.
How about you guys!
14 responses
@creative_freak (352)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
yes, remembering these special days is more important to the people we love, for it is a sign that we are giving them more attention and love, and we are making them well remembered..
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
that's what I mean...remembering special days for special people and they are very special to us...right?
@creative_freak (352)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
it is my way of saying that "you are remembered always".....they are so special to me...
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
25 Jul 07
Oh that's not fair! couples shouls always remember their partners' birthdates coz it's very important. To make them know that you love them and always remember them.
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
27 Jul 07
to me, it's great if my boyfriend remembers my birthday. of course, human are not machines. we can't remember all important things as computer or mobile phone does as there are so many important things in our life. also, memory is different among people. some have good one while some are forgetful. i think it's unfair if you request both be the same but not some one can not remember their partners'birthdays.^^
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
25 Jul 07
lol…. I too have a hard time remembering birthdays- I remember my daughters, brother, parents, sig. others—but as far as nieces and nephews and friends- I’m clueless- that is exactly why I have an internet reminder- a lot of card companies (online card companies) will be reminder services- So I load them in and then a week prior until that day I get an e-mail! Problem solved!
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
25 Jul 07
I mark everyone's birthday on the calendar so I don't forget.
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
25 Jul 07
many older chinese people are like you. they memorize all the birthdays of friends and relatives and without any reminder. but younger generation are forgetful. this maybe something with the stessful society and fast pace of living. just as me. when i am busy, i could even forget my own birthday while not , i can remember the birthday of a person who is not so important to me. just take it easy.^^
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
25 Jul 07
yes I remember everyones birthday my husband is not very good in remembering, so I have to keep everythng written down on a calander
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
yeah I'm doing that too...i listed them on a calendar...
@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
i remember my friends birthday but not my family or my other relatives.. i dont know why..
@nikko84111 (368)
• China
27 Jul 07
i can remember all of their birthday~
i feel sorry for that~
but i am trying to remember every one of them~
i will call them and give them my birthday wish~
sometimes i am busy and i will forget so i will set a memo to remind me~
@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
25 Jul 07
i remember everybody's birthday. my husband not so good in remembering stuff, he even forget doctor appointment. so i bought him this organizer, and i make him write down all important dates...haha...now after few years, it works, he can't be separated from his organizer.
@gmakesmoney (2923)
• United States
25 Jul 07
There are a few that I remember but I always forget things like anniversaries and such. My boyfriend has an awsome memory for those kinds of things though so he keeps me on track so I don't miss out on important dates.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
26 Jul 07
okey you need a notebook so you can list them and won't get lost...