xiongyijun

@xiongyijun (171)

China • Age 38

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What if your already commited and there is someone much better come along?

tines2512 @tines2512 (326) • Philippines 5 Oct 07

Just wanna share to you a friend of mine who has his boyfriend for about 2 years the relationship was good,when she had the chance to meet someone that came along with much better personality, she was confuse about it.She feels...

hurt

love

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xiongyijun it's really hard to decide which one to choose when you have to choose one of two. what i suggest is to tell her ask herself the following questions: 1, why did you fall in love with your current boyfriend? why do you fall in love with the new one now? 2,...

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Strangers wearing the same garments!

wealth168 @wealth168 (409) • Singapore 5 Oct 07

Had you ever encountered a situation when you happen to meet strangers in a bus or train wearing exactly the same type, color or style of garments that you were wearing? Well, I was traveling in a train this morning and I met a...

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xiongyijun several months ago, in the classroom, a person caught my eyes----she just wear the same cloth with me. the only difference between hers and mine is maybe the size. worse still, she just sat in front of me. my face turned red when i realized what happened and i...

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single and marriage life which is comfortable?

fredgame @fredgame (1260) • China 1 Sep 07

many marry to have kids and having to be two as the saying goes "two heads are better than one" while the sinlge may have not yet prepared to get into marriage and the attached reasons. though not yet married,i think single life...

better life

marriage life

single life

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xiongyijun this is also the question that makes me feel confused. i have independent thoughts and opinions and i like making my own decision instead of controled by others. but on the other hand, i need someone here to protect me. he would go with me wherever i go,...

1 Sep 07

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Don't hate your ex, appricate them and move on

Chosen21 @Chosen21 (4) • United States 27 Mar 07

i don't think hating a person would heel of your pain because the more you hate the person the more you are going to think about him/her, it's psychology. and the more you think about them the more you are going to miss him/her....

dont stay

walk away

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xiongyijun loving the one you'd loved is your own choice at that time, so there is no reason, no need or no use hating the one. if some is to be blame, blame yourself and then you can learn the lesson for a happier and brighter future, for finding another good one, and...

1 Sep 07

What do you do if you feel your girlfriend loves her ex-boyfriend and not you?

trickomm @trickomm (309) • Hungary 1 Sep 07

So some signs here. This situation is not mine, one of my friend has a problem. His girlfriend make calls to her ex-boyfriend, send emails, etc. About 5 calls a day and some mails. Is that normal? I think not. What do you think?

relationships

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xiongyijun if i were in this situation, i would just walk away. why bother myself if it is not me? why i am still here , being together with someone whose heart is taken by another one. it would hurt, not her, but the dear friend or yours.

1 Sep 07

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have you evperienced any public assault

muuvii @muuvii (181) • India 1 Sep 07

have you been assaulted in the public?if yes wud u mention the reason? i had been recently just for being hitten by a passing lady.they started saying that it was i who purposely hit them.

life

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xiongyijun no, i've never had such experience. because i always keep certain distances and avoid getting touch with other people. if you happen to getting touch with other people's body, they would shout at you or take you as a sneak thife. i can not bear none of them.

1 Sep 07

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would you take it ??

HOTKETCHUP3 @HOTKETCHUP3 (181) • Netherlands 30 Aug 07

if you got an neighboor who has very beautyfull clothes and he say you can buy them for cheap ,BUT you know he has steal the clothes would you take it ??

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xiongyijun i would not if i know they were stolen, because if i take them just because they are cheap, then i would become the assistance for the person who stole them and he would continue his crime. i don't want to be an assistance to a bad guy. i know, rejecting him...

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he just walked away!

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 1 Sep 07

we had agreed on the date getting back to school but he just leave today and without my knowledege! yesterday when i was in his home, i sent a short message to a classmate, a boy whom he know before. and the point is he knows...

walk away

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I am an aunt 18 times!

kimberlydax @kimberlydax (35) • United States 31 Aug 07

I have 18 neices and nephews! I love it too. My sister is due in Feb., so then it will be 19, yikes! Are you an aunty? To how many?

aunt

family

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xiongyijun i have had 19 necices and nephews now and another one is due in Oct.. then i will have 20. the first time i became an aunt is at 4 or 5, an now i am just 21. a 21 aunt will have 20 necices and nephews, amazing!

31 Aug 07

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After break up, what will you want to say to him/her?

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 28 Aug 07

I don't think I will say something because I am unable to say anything. As I want to say is I am still loving you.

break up

say

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xiongyijun thanks!^^

29 Aug 07

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Is there any place on Earth you WILL NOT visit?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 28 Aug 07

Usually the question is where do you want to go? Now, I just wonder if there's any place on earth that no matter what or even if you get paid to visit there you won't even go? Any specific reason why? For me, right now maybe...

place on earth

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xiongyijun maybe yes. if one day his love for me can make me feel confidence and forget where they'd gone to. i always feel jalous about this kind of things when i am not confident enough in front of him.

28 Aug 07

After break up, what will you want to say to him/her?

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 28 Aug 07

I don't think I will say something because I am unable to say anything. As I want to say is I am still loving you.

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xiongyijun wanting to say " i still love you" would make me feel not strong enough as i were going to live alone and were supposed to live happily wiht myself. i think i'll say nothing not because i would have nothing to say but because i just want to smile at him and...

28 Aug 07

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Is there any place on Earth you WILL NOT visit?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 28 Aug 07

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xiongyijun places that were visited by my boyfriend with his ex-girlfriend. because they have their own memory there. it would make me feel bad to visit there and imagine how happy they were. treat myself good and this is the reason.

28 Aug 07

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questions that i'll never ask

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 28 Aug 07

all through my life, here are questions that i'll never ask. 1. when both your mother and me are in danger, whom would you rescue first? the reason why i won't ask this question is quite simple----mother is the most...

never ask

questions

boyfriend had a quarrel with his father yestoday

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 28 Aug 07

yestoday when at the table, there was an unhappy argue between my boyfriend and his father and they even shout at each other. i've never experienced such kind of thing since the first time i went his home last year and i felt...

embarrassed

shout

unhappy argue

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why a man differs in two women's eyes?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 28 Aug 07

we are a happy family, but there still be conflicts. the most strange thing is that my dad differs in the eyes of my mum's from the one in mine. in her eyes, there are always shortcomings of my dad and advantages of others'while...

differ

family conflicts

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