xiongyijun

@xiongyijun (171)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 18 years ago

only if the dream is big enough

Discussions (22)

xiongyijun's Discussions

he just walked away!

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 1 Sep 07

we had agreed on the date getting back to school but he just leave today and without my knowledege! yesterday when i was in his home, i sent a short message to a classmate, a boy whom he know before. and the point is he knows...

walk away

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questions that i'll never ask

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 28 Aug 07

all through my life, here are questions that i'll never ask. 1. when both your mother and me are in danger, whom would you rescue first? the reason why i won't ask this question is quite simple----mother is the most...

never ask

questions

boyfriend had a quarrel with his father yestoday

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 28 Aug 07

yestoday when at the table, there was an unhappy argue between my boyfriend and his father and they even shout at each other. i've never experienced such kind of thing since the first time i went his home last year and i felt...

embarrassed

shout

unhappy argue

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why a man differs in two women's eyes?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 28 Aug 07

we are a happy family, but there still be conflicts. the most strange thing is that my dad differs in the eyes of my mum's from the one in mine. in her eyes, there are always shortcomings of my dad and advantages of others'while...

differ

family conflicts

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what kind of present do you expect your lover give to you?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 22 Aug 07

do we need roses as present to show love? if not, what kind of present in your mind can better express love?

love

present

rose

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2 people

what is your effecient way of fighting aginst anger?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 14 Aug 07

we live in this world in which we can not escape from anger. what is your efficientt way of fighting aginst anger? share here, and we can learn from each other.^^

anger

effecient way

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1 person

can you understand these english?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 10 Aug 07

almost non-native english speakers would make mistakes when speaking english influenced by their mother tongue. here are some chinese ones. can you make it clear what do they mean? 1.you ask me,me ask who? 2.you have what...

funny english

speaking english

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what is your story about Valentines' Day?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 10 Aug 07

every lunar July 7th is Chinese Valentines'Day and this year, it falls on solar august 19th. here i'd like to share the story of Niulang( means cowboy) and Zhinv( means cloth weaving girl), which is the origin of this day. Long...

chinese valentines day

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how do you define a friend?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 7 Aug 07

friends are important for us, but the word "friend" means differently to every one. what does it mean to you? and how do you define a friend?

define

friend

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who do you want to see most when there is only one minute left for you?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 5 Aug 07

we have lover,mon, dad, brothers, sisters, grandparents, friends...they are all important for us. but if there is only one minute left, whom will you devote this little minute to?

one minute

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1 person

what would you do if you were dumped by him/her?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 5 Aug 07

broken hearts are increasing day after day. maybe you've joined this group, or unfortunately you will one day( sorry). how did/ would you handle it? how soon do you think you can walk out of the shadow?

broken hearts

shadow

1 response

what kind of wedding?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 4 Aug 07

wedding day must be the biggest day in everybody's life. how is the wedding in your dream? or how was your wedding?

wedding

2 responses

does it matter who says "love" first?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 4 Aug 07

people around me tell me that as a girl, never say "love" first , no matter how much you love a man. they hold the belife that men will not cherish you if you say "love " first or accept him too early because things that easy to...

cherish

first

say love

2 responses

what makes a good man/ woman?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 3 Aug 07

there is not a perfect man/woman in this world. but there are good ones. i think a good man at least should have a sense of responsibility while a woman be loving. what makes a good man/ woman in your eyes?

who is/are the person(s) that you can not live without?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 3 Aug 07

different people have different most important people in their lives. what about you?

important people in life

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what is your dreaming man/girl like? what's your paterner like, sweet? independe

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 3 Aug 07

everyone has his/her picture of the right one. what is yours?

right one

4 responses

what if my younger brother is addicted to computer games?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 2 Aug 07

my younger brother is 11 now and he is addicted to computer games. but these games he plays are not the ones in which people play roles or violent or blue. is it harmful for him playing such games? what should i do? or should do...

addicted

computer games

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what should i do if my younger brother(11 ) is addicted to computer games?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 2 Aug 07

my brother is 11 now and he love computer games. but the games he plays is not the kind that people play roles in it or violent or blue. will it do harm to play games? what should i do? or should i do nothing?

elder sister

3 responses

what do you do before you go to bed every day? do you always think about sth

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 2 Aug 07

i have the habit of thinking about sth , everything during the period that between awake and asleep while laying in bed since the day i can remember things. i benefit quite a lot from it. it helps me make up my mind, to be...

habit

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will you get married only because of his/her wealth and social rank ?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 2 Aug 07

around me , there are couples got married because of wealth and social rank. it seems that they are married to wealth and social rank, but not the person called "husband"or "wife".while there are lovers who break up also only...

marriage

social rank

wealth

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2 people