why a man differs in two women's eyes?
By xiongyijun
@xiongyijun (171)
China
August 28, 2007 9:27am CST
we are a happy family, but there still be conflicts. the most strange thing is that my dad differs in the eyes of my mum's from the one in mine. in her eyes, there are always shortcomings of my dad and advantages of others'while in my eyes, dad is the best man in this world. i feel secured with him while she does not. i think he is the most considerate man for him while she does not. i think he is the most rational one but she thinks him not passionate or brave enough. i think he is a man who plan carefully before take actions but she thinks it's a sign of cowardness. of course, there are more examples. i just wonder why a man in the same family be a totally different one in the eyes of two women?
2 responses
@amazingrich (16)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Your argument is too simple. You and your mother have different perspective in life. Eventhough you are related to each other, you still do have the same beliefs. You might see your father as a fatherm while your mother sees your father not as a father but more as a husband to her. Being a father and being a husband are two different things. The people around you could also affect the things that you believe into. For example, your mother grew up in a family where males are really too brave and strong while you used to be with a passionate and loving father. Differences will always be there. You guys would just need to learn the person. Meaning, you have to know the weakness and the strength of the person. It is how we should know a person. Becuase in doing this, we could fully accept that person. Love your dad!
@zhangq1981 (4)
• China
23 Sep 07
your father is a excellent man. your mother only point out your father's defects, but in her heart, she knows about more your father's merits
