What do you do if you feel your girlfriend loves her ex-boyfriend and not you?

plese pardon me with my opinion but if you think it that way then leave the relationship because it's obvious that he only uses you to cover up her past relationship.. do you like to be the invisible man all your life? if she can't move forward you must do it for yourself.. (sorry with my comment)

Of course, it's very obvious that she is still in love with the other guy because if not, why would she bother to call him everyday and 5 times at that. If I would be in your friend's shoes, I would have a serious talk with the girlfriend and would ask her to tell me frankly if what is my score in her life so that I won't have hopes inside regarding our relationship. The earlier the better...at least it doesn't hurt that bad. I hope this helps...

You will have to let her go. Your relationship is not going to work when she is still in love with someone else (even if they are together or not). There's no point in going on. Both of you will end up getting hurt. You need someone who will love you.

That is definitely not normal. Anybody can sense it, she's not over him yet. Does your friend really love that girl so much that he will close his eyes on the fact that she still loves him? Can he fathom kissing her but her mind is thinking of another guy -- not him? That's just sad. If your friend can take it, I think he should break up with her. The girl seems to be just using him to forget the other guy or for whatever reason but obviously, the girl's not in love with your friend. Help your friend. Wake him up. There are lots of fish in the sea.

Thats very simple, leave her. Once you know that shes fond of her ex-boyfreind as you have said that she loves him and makes calls etc, meaning, she wants to still have contacts with him and is trying to keep her links up, and a person cannot double side at one time, so i think either you just leave her. But if you are also deeply in love with her, and want to see and understad why shes doing this, then you should have a face to face, frank talk with her, and dont presume things, till you hear them out from her, as to why shes trying to maintain contact with her ex-boyfriend, whats the reason? Does she want to go back to him, has she fallen out of love with you? does she still love him, is he wanting her back, all these questions can be put forth and things should be clarified the soonest, so that there is no misunderstanding and whatever would then happen, it would be for the best.

if i were in this situation, i would just walk away. why bother myself if it is not me? why i am still here , being together with someone whose heart is taken by another one. it would hurt, not her, but the dear friend or yours.