After break up, what will you want to say to him/her?

@youless (112591)
Guangzhou, China
August 28, 2007 10:28am CST
I don't think I will say something because I am unable to say anything. As I want to say is I am still loving you.
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• Philippines
20 Sep 07
Months after the break up --- I still want to say that I love her. I do not know but whenever I see her, I feel happy. To see her smile, to glance her. I still want to touch her and hug her...but then I do not have the strength to do that. So I keep silent. I do not talk to her. Many times I tried. Hell, I even called her but I do not have the strength to say that I still love her. Though I still miss her, I had decided to move on. Because it seems like we will never be together again.
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Sep 07
I feel the same. I am sorry to hear that. I hope the time will make you move on.
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
Thanks, I am trying to move on. But still I love her. Oh well thanks again.
@noriko (1254)
20 Sep 07
i said this once.... maybe we had the right love at a wrong time. i need to set you free becuase it is more painful to go on but just not feeling the same way anymore. take care and please try to remember me even once in a while.
@noriko (1254)
21 Sep 07
i still remember him every once in a while and pray that he is happy now. i am happy with my hubby and son so i hope he is happy wherever he is.
@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Sep 07
I feel moved. You are a generous person.
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
28 Aug 07
I don't think I will say something to him coz we have broken up and the words are meaningless.I don't think give up the relationship with my lover is painful,oppositely,sometimes,just sometimes,breaking up is the best choice for the both sides. I won't say I'm still loving you,that's too stupid!coz"???????".
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
29 Aug 07
To be honest,I'm not as strong as you imagined.After breaking up with my first boyfriend,I involved myself in my own world,I kept the secret in my heart.The secret was thatI knew that I still loved him and there must be something misunderstanding between us.The truth was that I was right.He misunderstood me.But the relationship between us cannot be repaired.Now if I stand in front of him,I won't say nothing,even I would like to ingore him.The love was lost and I could do nothing.So I don't think I should be painful in the former relationship.
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Aug 07
You are strong. Because giving up the love is always makes me suffering.
@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
31 Aug 07
after the break up... i am hypocrite if i tell him that i dont love him anymore... of corz i still do love him and i will let him know then say this words.. " ive done all the best but still we end up this way, i just hope you will find the girl who will truly love you the same as i do... goodluck..." thats all i said...
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Aug 07
You are a nice girl. The man who finds you as his girlfriend is very lucky.
@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
31 Aug 07
thanks youless... have a nice night... godbless
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• China
28 Aug 07
wanting to say " i still love you" would make me feel not strong enough as i were going to live alone and were supposed to live happily wiht myself. i think i'll say nothing not because i would have nothing to say but because i just want to smile at him and make myslfe cool. i want my esteem. stop thinking about him or everything about him, this would be my policy, because this would make me more determined and brave enough to face the truth and get through it.
@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Aug 07
You have a very strong spirit, and I appreciate you.
• China
29 Aug 07
thanks!^^
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
18 Sep 07
"After break up, what will you want to say to her?" Okay here go a few and this is toward multiple harpies. I've caught up with a good number of them, so the lines are based on what I learned/observed and stuff from the break up. **** Are you having fun with your STD boy toy? Did "the perfect guy" leave you or cheat on you? You know, its great you never loved me and lied to me, but I do hope your "soulja" doesn't do the same to you. Ha ha! You wanted some other dude, he got you pregnant and he split. Well what did you expect? He's 10 years older than you. It couldn't be? You actually believed him when he said you're the only one and you should leave me for him? Oh man o man, how rich and delicious!
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Sep 07
Thanks for your reply.
@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Depends on who did the breaking. Usually a break up is really a good thing (even if one can't see it at first) so good riddance to bad rubbish! +'s |:)
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Aug 07
Wow, I must say you are a very positive person.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
28 Aug 07
Sorry if you have had a bad break up... I have gone through bad break ups too and I know they feeling. When my first true love and I split up and I wished I didn't have to see him ever after cause it was too hard. I did see him once and it tore me apart. But my relationship after him it was a lot easier to get over and we are not best of friends. So I guess it depends. If my man and I split up we would still need to see each other because we have a child together. It would be pretty painful to see him or say anything to him if we were to split up but I would try my best to do what is best for our son and be cooperative. Take Care Vicki
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Aug 07
You are a very good mom, I am so moved. I sincerely hope you will be happy because you deserve it.
• Philippines
28 Aug 07
you know i learned my lesson on that..i had never spoke again and just ignore the person when i had broke up with him..i didn't wanna ignore him the truth is i want him back and wanna say i still love him so much but my pride took me so far i kept myself silent..fear of rejection..then i will hear from someone that he was just waiting for me to say i want him back but since i never spoke about it he never did too..the point here is, maybe there is still another chance but people just don't wanna take risk..it could be both of us are just waiting to speak about the matter..
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@youless (112591)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Aug 07
You are right, perhaps the pride made me keep silent about it.