How do you get over losing your spouse - I can't move on

United States
July 27, 2007 9:06am CST
It's been a while & I can't continue - I feel like I'm betraying & can't get it out of my head.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
27 Jul 07
I guess If you really got along well with that person it would be hard, it another thing when you want to get away from your love one. I feel like I want to leave my husband too much stress. I can take it anymore! I am sorry if you lose a love one. have a good day! and yes we can be friends. I see we have the same thing in common. Horses, I am a horseracing fan. have your ever heard of picksandplays.com that is a very good site and they give you winners, check it out and get free account, doesn't cost anything. Have a good day!
• United States
27 Jul 07
Thanks for your words and the site. Have a great day!
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@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
27 Jul 07
It's really hard that's for sure.. My mom lost my dad a year ago.. My dad was a wonderful person.. I don't know how she did it.. But she had told me it was hard very hard.. But she thought of her kids, her grand babies and thats what made her move on.. You have to look ahead in the future.. You can do this I know you can.. Other have done it all you need is some strength.. If you ever need someone to listen don't be afraid to send me a message.. I will listen and talk to you.. May god be with you in the time of need.. God bless you..
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• United States
27 Jul 07
thank you so much. My prayers are with you and your mom.
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• United States
27 Jul 07
Thank you... Alot has happened in the past year but things do get better in time..Everyone would tell me that but at the time I didn't believe them.. But there is light at the end of the tunnel.. Keep going and don't stop.. You will be fine I promise!! ~huggs~
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
27 Jul 07
I guess If you really got along well with that person it would be hard, it another thing when you want to get away from your love one. I feel like I want to leave my husband too much stress. I can take it anymore! I am sorry if you lose a love one. have a good day! and yes we can be friends. I see we have the same thing in common. Horses, I am a horseracing fan. have your ever heard of picksandplays.com that is a very good site and they give you winners, check it out and get free account, doesn't cost anything. Have a good day!
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
27 Jul 07
It takes time belive me. It has been over 3 years since my ex husband left me. I still haven't gotten past some things and I proberly won't for awhile still.
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
29 Jul 07
I have not ever been in this situation- But I'm sure she would want you to move on and be happy- I know if I passed away I would want just that- They say time heals everything- Maybe you need to just get out there again and see how it feels- dating I mean- EEKK-- right. I'm sorry you lost your spouse-- good luck to you!
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
27 Jul 07
Wow thats pretty deep...I dont know the situation but I think that you have to be strong...Moving on would be a great step...There are people here you know that you can talk to and Im sure that they will be glad to help you..You have friends here..
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
3 Aug 07
Well, I am so sorry to hear about your spouse. I hope that things will turn good for you in the end. Just hang in there.