Is there something your husband, wife or s/o does that really annoys you?
By BlueAngelRS
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
Canada
July 30, 2007 12:26am CST
I love my husband with all my heart...But there something he does that really annoys me...He will be in the living room sitting and watching tv...I will ask him a question or start talking to him loud enough that he should hear me...
1 minute goes by: No response
I wait 5 minutes then ask again the same cycle repeats it self
Finally by the 3rd time he hears me and answers the question...He gets so glue to the tv he zones out it seems lol...The funny part is our son is the same way lol
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11 responses
@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
30 Jul 07
The thing that annoys me most about my husband is that he could be looking right at you, you ask him a question, and his reply is "huh, I didn't hear you". What the..you were looking right at me you bozo..lol Now don't get me wrong, like you, I love my husband to pieces, but some of the things he does just royally gets on my nerves.
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@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
31 Jul 07
Yeppers! I'm surprised I am not bald as much as I have wanted to with my husband, but by some miracle my hair is still there...lol
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
oh yes after so many times of the same thing repeating itself it does get annoying after awhile and your like wanting to pull your hair out lol...
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
1 Aug 07
I can totally related to that jeweled..As you are I'm surprised I'm not bald either...LOL
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
I think the thing that my hubby does that drives me the most batty is I will ask him a question with 2 answers and he will look at me and say ok. For example if I ask him do you want ice cream or a banana chocolate chip muffin for dessert, he will look at me and say ok. Then I ask "Which one?" because he never said. He does that ALL the time and it really urgs me. Sometimes if my hubby is really into whats on tv he won't hear me either so don't feel too bad hun lol.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
LOL I hear you there..But at the same time I can't call it a man thing can I? I catch myself sometimes too if I'm deep in thought or glued to something and zone out sometimes it takes a couple times before I hear someone happened today lol
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
Yes that is very true and it's not just a man thing. If anyone is really interested in what they are watching and someone calls them they very often won't hear because they are SOOOO interested in whatever it is they are watching. One time my mom called me and I had to turn the tv off so that I didn't "zone out" on her.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
yes that is true...For me it can be the computer too I have to turn my back from it or I get mixed up of what I'm talking about on the phone then on the computer?
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
31 Jul 07
sometimes I wonder because I noticed my husband does it alot more than I do lol
@Nanette99 (219)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
My boyfriend always interrupts me when I am reading. He could be sitting there, doing his own thing for the better part of an hour but as soon as I pick up a book, well about two minutes after, he tries to start a conversation. I say he is being controlling but he thinks it is just coincidence. Coincidence? Every time? I don't think so.
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@Nanette99 (219)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
i am not too worried about it. I just threaten to start reading Cosmo instead so we can do the quizzes together. That usually gives me a few interrruption-free chapters.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
In away that could be considered controlling in my opinion, for example it's okay when he is doing something not to take time out and talk with you but it's okay that when you find something to do he decides oh okay lets have a conversation...If it were me I would have a talk with him and explain to him how I feel when he does that...If you need to talk hun I'm here hope this helps...
@cyberopjames (483)
• United States
30 Jul 07
LOL, I know how that is. My other half gets glued to the tv as well. But what he dose to bug me is he will come in and rather then saying something looks nice in the home he would start looking for bad things or something that I did not get time to do. I am disabled and can not work so I work from home over the computer and just last week I made more that week then he make in 6 months. That was on Ebay. But he keeps telling me that I need to go out and find a job.
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@cyberopjames (483)
• United States
30 Jul 07
Well he is getting better with it. I dont listen to him, but when my payday somes around he sure gets happy. LOL.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
yes how their programs on tv have them loose all sense of reality at times lol...Awww I'm sorry that you are dealing with that, I am at a loss for words I don't know how I would handle it if my husband did the same thing..I am a stay at home mom and wife...I am pretty laxed in the cleaning department it seems..We just had a tradegy happen a couple of months ago so i've been coming to terms with that..I feel lucky my husband is understanding of why i want to stay home and he rarely complains about it but when it comes to bills we owe or things we have to pay and it gets overwhelming on the one income it turns into a big deal..if you ever need someone to talk to, i'm a good listener i'm not great in advice but I can sometimes say what I would do in a certain situation..
@neilanthonyte123456 (70)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
She always doubted be that's the first thing that really annoys me. But in your part it is ok, there are person who's like that. . .
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
31 Jul 07
I have done that too..I guess it was a part of my insecurity..thanks for your response
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
lol gabs I sometimes wonder if it isn't a male thing hehe..I know that I can be known to get distracted once in awhile but with my son and husband it's all the time lol
@TiffanieC (827)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I will come back to this again later but one of the most annoying things is that he picks his nails. It makes this sound that is very annoying and distracting. He'll even do it while driving and not really have his hands on the wheel, drives me crazy!
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
That would be annoying for sure...thanks for sharing your story hun
@Mickie30 (2626)
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30 Jul 07
Yeah my husband does the same it must be a bloke thing I thought it had something to do with his adhd. The other thing is he doesn't tidy up after himself on a good note though he does almost all of the cooking and he is a fantastic cook.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
ohhh that would be nice...My husband doesn't do all the cooking but he is however good at helping with the laundry..So I don't mind plus we love to bbq so it works out hehe
@mummymo (23706)
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30 Jul 07
You know I used to do this when I was younger, not just watching tv but when I was reading or drawing, in fact if I was concentrating on anything at all I used to not hear people speaking to me! The thing that irritates me most about my other half is the fact that we will discuss something - agree on a plan of action and then constantly forget what we decided and ask about 5-6 times! lol xxx
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
oh mummymo I can sooo relate to that for sure lol...My husband and I will have running around to do and I will tell him where we need to go...And while we are out he asks me every time do we need to go here or where next man alive lol...I wonder about my husbands memory sometimes..lol hugzzzz
@youless (112582)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Jul 07
I have experienced the same situation. Lately my husband is addicted to play the computer game. It's OK to play it for a while as the entertainment, but I don't think it's suitable to play it for a long time. So I'm trying to figure out what to do.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
30 Jul 07
I can understand and relate to that my husband is known to do that from time to time..What I've done is asked him can we please have a talk..I've explained to him that I feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me anymore..Usually that works it has for me when I've explained how I feel...
