Deleted from Mylot Friends lists...
@awonderfullife (2893)
United States
July 30, 2007 1:50pm CST
I know I haven't been on Mylot as much as I used to because I'm much busier now with kids being off from school. Still, today I noticed that at least 3 of my favorite friends have delted me frpm their Friends lists. At least I THINK they deleted me-- I know I didn't delete them. I'm a little confused and hurt. I have repsonded to many of their posts over the past few months and have even PM'd with some of them. So really, I would like to know... if you deleted me, then why? Was I a crappy friend? lol
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I didn't delete you did I ? I went threw the other day and deleted some that haven't been on in months, but I don't think I deleted you. I always like to respond to your discussions. I am going to check right now to make sure it wasn't me.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I just checked...it wasn't me. Maybe your other friends were doing like I did and trying to clean out their friends who aren't active. Sorry this happened to you.
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@awonderfullife (2893)
• United States
30 Jul 07
No sunshine, it wasn't you! I just think it's weird because it's at least 3 of them (could be more) that seeemd to have deleted me all at around the same time.
Hmm..... do we have Mylot cliques now? lol
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
31 Jul 07
LOL~ that is so weird that they all deleted you at the same time. Oh well, their loss!
@AmbiePam (92719)
• United States
30 Jul 07
I hope this doesn't cause you much concern. If they have a problem with you, it's their loss. Plus, you don't want them getting your discussions and responding in a rude manner if they don't like or agree with your ideas or posts. I have taken people off my friend list before. Once it was because they hadn't posed on Mylot at all for 2 months. Once it was because they posted a discussion that was so awful I didn't want them to be on my friend list. And once was because someone had requested to be my friend, and after months and months had not responded to any of mine, and had over 800 friends. Since I didn't care much for their discussions anyway, I deleted them. Since none of those reasons apply to you, then just consider yourself to be lucky to be free of any extra negativity. : )
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@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
31 Jul 07
Oh that is too bad- I wonder why people delete friends- I mean I will if the person is no longer here and active- but if you have been posting- I’m not sure why they would- I always say if I deleted a person and they become active again- we can be friends again- I do not think you are a crappy friend- I’ve just met you!
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
1 Aug 07
There have been several messages lately about people cleaning out their myLot accounts. I know that I was deleted by someone on my friend list recently and I believe that was the reason. I think people must be setting some criteria and then going in to all their friends profile and deleting them if that criteria was not met.
Just looking at your profile, I doubt you could be a crappy friend to anyone. Sorry your feelings have been hurt.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
31 Jul 07
i'm sorry to hear that some of your friends in mylot deleted you from their list... i hope that it son't affet you that much... and i'm pretty sure that i'm not the one who is doing it as i never delete anybody from my friends' list before... if they delete you, it is their loss and that means they are not worth to be your friend... just don't get too upset and try to enjoy your time here... :-)
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@sunshinecup (7871)
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30 Jul 07
Well for what it's worth, I haven't deleted you. I wouldn't worry too much about it, it's their loss if you think about it.
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
31 Jul 07
I delete my friends if they have not been active for one month. This is because I assume they are finished with My Lot. Do you think I should wait a little longer?
I like to keep My friends list up to date, just for organisational reasons.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
31 Jul 07
Hello awonderfullife!
I am really sorry that it happened to you. I understand that, It must have been very hurting. I personally may not feel that hurt or perhaps I do. I would think that if someone deleted me than perhaps we were never meant to be friends! what do you say? It's really disturbing to have good feelings about someone and finding one fine morning that they don't consider you as a friend and don't even bother explaining their reason. Perhaps they may not have to give the reason. I think it's good not to have someone who is not willing him/herself. You probably would be better off without them.
I have never deleted any of my friend other than 2 until recently. I deleted them just because they were spamming, creating discussions after discussions in a day never to come back to their discussion again. They were being offline for the whole week then will come to repeat the above cycle. I tried to correct them but they never listened so I deleted them.
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
31 Jul 07
Hi awonderfullife. You are still one of my friends...I am not sure what happened..Do you get a notification when someone deletes you?..I don't know...