Hey Friends what do you think FALLING IN LOVE ! or being SINGLE ! RokSss

India
August 2, 2007 12:09pm CST
Hey friends what do you think Falling in LOVE is better than being single or being SINGLE is better than falling in LOVE! I prefer to be [SINGLE] because Loving some HURTS the most as it says you go for LOVE or not it HURTS. this is what i think So wot about my friend out here on MYLOT what do you think
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16 responses
@essytssy (125)
• India
3 Aug 07
love is life nobody can ignore it. Only mutually love is trust worth than oneside.. so if u love some one sincerely they should do something for u.. but the fact is once fallen in love, it will be more more and more pain that nobody can tolerate if it happend to break. so with the broken heart i suggest, always depend on mutual love...
• India
9 Aug 07
i agree with you my friend when you say the word mutually. And thanks for your response.
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• United States
3 Aug 07
I think It is better to love once you hit a certain point in your life. I wouldn't have wanted to fall in love really young, because then I wouldn't have had the experience in life that I do now. I think that being single for so long would eventually become lonely. Also to have to try to get to know someone new all the time and try to become comfy with them in such a short period of time would be hard for me to do. I'm glad that I feel in love and that I know what true love feels like.
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• India
3 Aug 07
staying single is lot better than in love. if your single, you can have control on yourself and no decides your day, but it's not the case when your in love.... Your lucky and love stinks !
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
3 Aug 07
It's true that being in love makes your life more complicated. You have less time for yourself, you have more headaches and heartaches. But I'll tell you this: It's all worth it, because it's great to love and to be loved. Love may not make the world go round, but it's what makes the journey worth it.
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• Philippines
3 Aug 07
Well i suggest you fall in love of course but at least when you fall in love this time, choose someone worthy enough for you.Being single, many dont wanna admit but being single sukcs and so lonely:)
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
3 Aug 07
I have reached a point in my life where I am perfectly content on being single but I am not opposed to or afraid of falling in love. If I were to fall in love now, I would not be afraid of being hurt even though I very well could be....it's just a part of life. I think that by fearing falling in love just to avoid hurt...well, your missing out on some wonderful experiences. Even if love doesn't last forever...it is wonderful while it lasts. I would think it would be better to learn how to cope with the possibility of being hurt than to live a life with no possibility of love. If love never came my way again, I'd be ok with it...its what is meant to be. I can't imagine deliberatly shutting off my heart to the possibility of it. I am sorry that you have been hurt so badly. I hope you get over it in time. This is a great question because the truth is ...I am really happy being single. I think the difference between us lies with the fact that I am not afraid of being hurt...if i fall in love its the chance i take and worth the chance...there are no guarantees there.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
3 Aug 07
Love is such a beautiful thing in the world, it is always better to fall in love, maintain the relationship and it is even better if one gets married, rather than stay single.
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• India
3 Aug 07
Hey friend you know what.? ARRANGE marriage are more sucessful than LOVE MARRIAGE and according to mu knowledge there was this Survey conducted worldwide where they had proved this .?
@vijay4056 (159)
• India
3 Aug 07
being single is cooler than being in a relation love obviously hurts its like wisps getting to the candle sometimes some get over it some dont
• India
3 Aug 07
yeah do i like it you rule.... Its cool being SINGLE........
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
12 Aug 07
If I had the choice before I ever fell in love, I would have avoided the whole situation altogether because there isn't anything about love that is that good anyways. Love is nothing but a pain in the behind. I would vote to be single any day and I would be happy about that no problem.
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• India
13 Aug 07
Yup friend you are rite lovi is pain and being single rokx because even i have gone through the pain . It hurts. And friend thankx for your response.
@jothis (518)
• India
2 Aug 07
Falling in love! Everybody like it. But after that normally the love stories moves towards an end. Dont take this way. Prove to be a hero
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• India
3 Aug 07
Oh! prove to be a hero can you tell me wot kinda HERO a SUPERHERO
• United States
2 Aug 07
You only feel this way becuase you haven't found someone who is not going to hurt you and who is going to love you like you deserve to be loved. I've found that person and I don't want to ever be without him. But it wasn't always that way. I had to go through a lot of hard breakups, disappointment, and heartbreaks in order to be where I am today. Maybe about a year ago I would have said that I preferred to be single but now that I'm in a good, loving relationship, I don't want to be single ever again.
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• India
3 Aug 07
wot your are saying might be true or correct. I agree with you 50%. But being single rulez.
@no_chao (548)
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
being in love??you cant decide for that..it's our hearth that decide.... and it's up on you if you tolerate it or disregard it... but having someone in life is necessary.. no man can live in an island ALONE... dont you have a plan to have kids??
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• India
11 Aug 07
hey friend thankx for your response.
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
3 Aug 07
i guess being single has its advantages and being attached has its own advantages too... it reli depends if u are out to play or u wanna sink into a steady and stable relationship... for me, im one whom choose the later... but i totally agree tt sour relationship hurts... love hurts too...
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• India
3 Aug 07
hey friend thats the best post that i have come across till now on this discussion. Keep going its really a good one.
• South Korea
3 Aug 07
I'd like to be in love with someone. But, until I meet the one who is right for me I'm still very much fulfilled by my loved ones and things that I'm doing with my own life. I think it's easy for those who are experiencing love right now to feel that it's the only way to live but those of us on the outside can be just as happy. Again, I'd love to be in that position but not until it's right...until that time I welcome the adventure of meeting and experiencing different people.
• India
3 Aug 07
Yup i would agree with you on the thing that you said for the rite person in your life?
• India
2 Aug 07
its nice to take the risk of falling in love than getting afraid to take the plunge. Being in love is not easy, but what is life with-out love? so i like to take the risk of loving even at the expense of getting hurt in the process, its very important that every person go through that process.
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• India
2 Aug 07
is it lets see. go for it once cos even i used to think they way you are thinking now..?
• India
2 Aug 07
I am Still single UNLUCKY me no one in LIFE has propesed me. SAD but i would prefer to FALL IN LOVE i think it does wonder in life.
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• India
2 Aug 07
Got for it Dude if you think love is tooooooooooooo goood You'll learn the harsh way to live life then