do you choose a friend over a lover?

@rexiemay (401)
Philippines
August 7, 2007 6:01am CST
what if both your boyfriend and closest friend invite you out for dinner? who are you going to choose?
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@ayris77 (1301)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 07
I will choose according to what we say must important.My friends and my lovers always know what i the time for my personal affairs. They don't even ask me about that! That's the reason i'm in an easy situation!
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• United States
7 Aug 07
Hi rexiemay. I would choose my boyfriend, not that my friend and our friendship aren't important however, if they really are a friend then they would understand and we could plan for another time. Unless, I had the plans with my friend before my boyfriend asked then I would go with my friend and my boyfriend and I would have to make plans for another night. Have a great day=)
@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
9 Aug 07
i agree with your comment. most of the time we choose our boyfriend over our friends however in my case if i could ask my boyfriend to join us then it would be more fun. thank you. :)
@josan181237 (1204)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
i choose my boyfriend. going out for dinner with another guy is a big NO for me. hehe. if it's my closest friend who is a girl then i have to reschedule our dinner because my boyfriend comes first. =)
• China
8 Aug 07
In my opinion I will ask my boy friend to together with me to my friends' dinner.
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@mkcallejo (318)
• Philippines
8 Aug 07
I will definitely choose a lover except when my closest friend has an emergency and it is very important.
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• Northern Mariana Islands
9 Aug 07
Hello rexiemay! Well since i dont have a boyfriend ofcourse am down to go out with friends anytime. And now if i do have a boyfriend i think i would still do with friends...but it also depends on the occation though...lol
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
10 Sep 07
You know, friends are forever and lovers come and go. So, if I know my boyfriend won't last forever, I will choose my friend over him any day.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
7 Aug 07
Well seeing how I dont see my friends very often since I moved to another country I'd pick my friend hands-down..I see my hubby all the time and did when we were just dating too so yea I'd definately pick the friend...
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@anousha (406)
• Mauritius
7 Aug 07
I think if I had some kind of fight with my bf and to patch up he has invited me for dinner then I would definitely go. However if both have invited me without any special reason, then simply I would request my friend to also invite my bf for the dinner. I guess s/he will understand since he is my closest fiend! But if no solution is found then I would refuse both dinners and instead invite them at my place!
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@qambber (47)
• Sweden
7 Aug 07
I dont want a boy freind :'-(
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