love... is it for real or for reel

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I once heard it said that every person has the same two fear...the fear of not being loved and the fear of not being able to give love. People use the word LOVE all the time in a lot of different ways. it has been used in vain so much that some doubt it when said. Take me for instance, i often say i love him. What am i saying when i say i love him? i am saying that i care about him. i am saying that i love spending time with him, that i take time to talk to him every chance i get, that if he needs me, i would do humanly possible to help him and i am saying that i want all the best for him. what am i saying when i love coffee, for an instance? Am i saying that i care deeply about coffee? Am i saying that i have a special relationship with coffee? am i saying that if coffee has a problem, i would be there for coffee? (what?! not enough cream? i'll be right there!!) Of course not!When i say i love coffee, i am saying that i love drinking coffee until i dont want it anymore, i am simply saying that i am in the mood of drinking coffee and when i dont like it anymore, i will just throw it away or offer it to somewhat who wants coffee at that moment, it does not matter to me anymore. These are the two different definitions of the word LOVE... so next time, when someone looks deeply in your eyes and say "I LOVE YOU", look very deeply back and say, "Would that be a coffee love or the real thing?" :)