Your mother in-law loves you?

Mother-daughter-in-law relationship is not always happy...just like yours...in my case, I am ok with my mother-in-law because we don't get to see often...she lives in far away Hawaii and only comes home for a vacation...this month, she is on vacation, but have not really met her because she is in Cag de Oro now...I hope to meet her though sometime later...heard that she and my husband are coming over our place for a visit, which I happily anticipate...generally, I have no problem with her, so I count myself lucky....hope one day, you will finally find the magic formula to make your MIL happy...good luck.

Yes of course. Not the love of the kind one thinks about. She likes me like mother does. She is a kind person and in fact it is she who insists that I should visit their family as often as I can. They stay 400 km from my place.

I loved my mom in law, and she loved me.. I pray your's will love and appreciate you soon! I've never understood the reasoning behind jealousy over your kids.. Instead of clutching one kid, you could have two!

after the marriage this mother are no longers mothers!!they are almost like villians.can't stand the sight of them.here in India we have to stay alog with our inlaws and they try their best to make our lives as hells-always interfering and always poking their noses in every matter and of least help when needs!!

Ahhh, yes, doing what we can to make her happy. Will never work. If she's that miserable, nothing you can do will make her happy. I'm in the same boat and I've been married to my husband for 12 years now. Sanity? I keep it by not spending any time around her. I will find ways around it.

well mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshsip is always like that. its becuase the son married tha daughter-in-l;awe and because the motehr-in-law is husbands mother. :) all the compromises are based on this fact. but still there can be less conflicts if worked out.

I love my mother in law, and she loves me, she has always treated me just like one of her own kids, she says it is nice to have a daughter after having had four boys. She will tell me if she thinks I am doing something wrong, and if she thinks I am doing something good, she is a good support system for me just like my own mother would be if she were still alive. We get along like mother and daughter in a good relationship. We have always had a good relationship, I have been her daughter in law for over 13 years, and we knew each other for years before that and have always gotten along just fine.

my mom dont like of wife either one way to get her attention is help her in her interest example in cooking even if you dont know how to cook showher that you appreciated her help her in the kitchen clean the house. that what my mom like helping her, embracing her like she is your mom too. coz mom is jealous about new comer and want a perfectionist.

Generally speaking, it is Ok between my mother-in-law and me. I suppose the main reason is that we got so far away from each other and as a normal, we can only met each other 1 time/year. My mother-in-law is a small old woman and she is always smiling. She treat me not bad but I could not say she love me just like I do not love her really.