Rinsing toddlers hair

United States
October 26, 2006 8:11am CST
i have a 15 month old and she hates getting her hair rinsed off during her bath. i've tried everything i can think of...any ideas?
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• United States
26 Oct 06
I don't like rinsing hair with dirty bath water so we always turn the faucet on to get clean hair. We used to use a cup then it seemed to make more sense to just put thier heads under the faucet. It took a few time before they got the hang of it. I just tell them to look up above their head at the water. When they are facing up the water won't go in their eyes. And I usually keep saying, how nice the water feels in a soft voice. My youngest daughter took to it right away. She was probably 18 months old, maybe a little younger. My oldest daughter had the most resistance to it--she was 3 at the time. Otherwise we just dumped the water right over their heads and let them scream. The soap won't hurt thier eyes and it is over quickly. Seems mean but hair has to be rinsed.
• United States
26 Oct 06
I hate the dumping thing because it can be so traumatic (especially when they are already freaked out) but you have to rinse their hair some how and you really can't reason with a toddler. Try holding a washcloth to her eyes as you dump the water. It never really bothered my son but my daughter would scream that it burned even though it was supposed to be tear free. But I was the same way. I remember screaming as a kid because the Johnson & Johnson (tear free) shampoo burned my eyes so bad. My mom never believed me, though. Some people just have sesitive eyes.
• United States
27 Oct 06
yeah i think she doesn't like the dumping because she feels like she's drowning or something and starts to panic. so maybe i need a more gentler approach, like putting something over her eyes.
• United States
26 Oct 06
i haven't tried the faucet thing yet, that's a good idea. one of my friends just dumps the water on her kids too...i may just have to do that. thanks for the advice!
26 Oct 06
You have probably tried this but having a flannel on the face covering the eyes used to help my litle boy, I also only filled the bath a tiny way so that when h lay down the water went no where near his eyes and used a cupped hand to wash off the water whilst getting his attention with my other hand with a toy he liked? hope this helps you?
• United States
26 Oct 06
something covering the face is a good idea, i hadn't thought of that. thanks!
26 Oct 06
Let me know how you get on, hopefully that wil make her feel a little bit safer from he shampoo in her eyes!
• United States
30 Oct 06
hey kerry, i just wanted to let you know that i tried putting a wash cloth over my dauther's eyes to rinse her hair and she didn't cry at all! thanks for the tip!
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
30 Oct 06
My grandchild just went through this same thing not too long ago. Now we do the hairwash at the same time as the tub bath. We got a little plastic children's watering can (like they'd use in the garden) for rinsing the hair. You get a lot better aim with it, and while they're in the tub they can play with it dumping water in and out. Also, in the beginning, we'd stick a terrycloth headband over the forehead and ears. Kept the water out of the eyes and ears pretty good!
• United States
30 Oct 06
thanks for the tip!
• United States
26 Oct 06
Sometimes I try letting my toddler pour the water over his own head. B/c he hates getting his hair rinsed too. Also you could try leaning her back so the water doesn't go in her eyes.
• United States
27 Oct 06
thanks for responding! :)
@briennekb (610)
• United States
30 Oct 06
If your child will keep a hat on, try a visor. I put one on my daughters head and it worked really good. The water didn't go near her face. She couldn't eveb tell what I was doing. She just keeps playing.
• United States
30 Oct 06
that's a good idea too, thanks!