Do you WORRY a lot, and or daily about whatnot?

So, qud, you never worry? What if your kid does not show up from school? What if your old and sick mother does not answer the phone for hours? You just stay calm and wait for a sign from the Man above? Excuse me, I don't buy it.

I do believe Qudsiakarim85, still, this doesn't make me worry any less. Logic tells me that if I worry or don't worry - this wouldn't change a thing, but than still, it continues and goes on. And believe me, I would rather enjoy life and feel free of worries :)

Hi there Rosie, thanks for answering here dear :) There are moments that I worry, and others that I work and concentrate on important stuff, like work, that has to be done. No matter what, worrying comes all the time, no matter what I am doing, and I would love to be the person who is chilled out when she chooses to be - and this will be enough for me, just having sdsome kind of a "command" that I could give to my self, like: "Realx now dear, and chill, wow, nice " :)

I guess if, at the end of everything, you are still alive then all is well. I don't think I ever solved a problem by worrying about it, but I would have felt guilty if I didn't worry about something, especially if it was important. It's like my job in life.

Well Terry and Rollo1, by me worry brings stress, and stress is shortening our life span considerably. Stress in small amounts seems to be necessary, but by increased every day stress we are on the loosing end, so what i actually would like is find a cure...

my worries are mostly financial ...instability in money matters ..I do not believe that yoga and meditation could ease out my financial worries . You need real money to solve the crisis .

Sukumar, Believe it or not, only the rich among us can fair easily with money, and still, they too worry about it. The more you have - the mnore you worry! As for the rest - normal folks, we all have more or less money worries, and you're not netirely correct. In order to be able to deal with your money troubles, you need to be calm, and be able to find a way to make more money. You can do it when under stress, but it's gets more difficult. I know plenty of excecutives in big companies that need relaxation in order to be more productive and to achieve more, so it goes for us worrier people too, get relaxed in order to get out of your money troubles :) Good luck

I feel for you Sukumar, I really do. have you tried yoga and meditation? I am starting it again and at least for awhile it does seem to help :) God Bless

Dear Liana, you dear really need chilling, like me, but you're far worse than me, or so it seems. I will definitely post here if I find a "cure" that works for me, as I would LOVE to feel chilled for once ;)

Rollo1 You are even a bigger worry person than I am :) and it is really a pain for myself to be as I am. Life would be so much easier for me and all the others if I wasn't so worried I am not like you put it "...tense at the cellular level" but pretty much the rest of what you described. Would you like to find a "cure" for this state of worry? I would really, but don't know where to find it, as I have tried several therapies, and yoga, but it doesn't really seem to work for me

Thanks for your reply Danishcanadian, And the way you do it is the right one, although there are many, many worriers among everyday people, just like your mum, me and many others. "Don't worry, be happy" from the song is what I would like to have as my lifestyle, but how to achieve the worryless state is the question :)

Esterlou, this is reeally what happens, getting sick from worrie at times, and I simply wish there was some cure against it...