Its not important howmuch u love but its more imp howmuch that person loves u.

Hello vinzen,thanks for your response.I absolutely agree with you that true love should be both sided.Now see you have contradicted your own response.In your first line you have written that "I dont completely agree with this" that means its not important for you howmuch the other person loves you,but on your later part of your response you have written "being humans we expect love in return also." Now as you havewritten about true love, then true love is always both sided now my question is how will you understand that is a true love or not.If there are two girls/guys in your life at the same time and both of them are mentally fit(not suffering from any psychological disease ) claims that they loves you but with a microscopic analysis you find that one girl/guy is standing upto knee water level and another one is standing upto her/his neck water level For You.Now both the girls/guys loves you, but for you, would it be very difficult to understand that even you have feelings for both the girl/guy but the girl/guy who is standing upto her/his neck water level For You loves you more than you love that girl/guy yourself?so isnt its the girl standing on her neck water level actually making you fall in deeperlove/true love with that girl?

Thanks for replying. No i was not contradicting my own statement if it felt like that, but meant to say that love has to be two sided. As far as the example of the two girls, firstly i would not be two siding , two people at the same time, secondly if ever such a situation comes, i would not see who goes how deep in water for me. That is not love as far as i am concenred. Love is a deeper feeling and emotion which we feel from within, we dont weigh how much who did for us in love. We just simply love unconditionally. I wouldnt judge by how far a person goes for in love. I would judge instead how much we love each other, both sides. Guess each person to their own choices, thanks for replying though.

Thanks for replying. See i talk of simple, pure love, which has to have give and take, it cannot be one sided, unconditionally i mean that, you have to love and get the love also, there are no conditions in love that i will do this or that for you, or this person has done this or that so his or her love is higher etc, i meant that ok. The second part of your statement i am sorry i was not able to understand. I dont have any more partners than my own life partner,and i love him a lot, so there are no doubts within me regarding that. I am sorry somehow you are not satisfied with my answers. All i am saying in simple words is that love is soemthing that is deep within and felt, an emotion, a feeling which is mutual, alright. It has no conditions in the sense that, if someone loves or does more for you, you will love that person only more. No, you may feel love another third person also who maynot do things for you in such a way, there maybe love within both of you, it has to be felt, it is not measured by how much a person can do for you. Hope you are satisfied, thanks.

Hello jayalaksmi,thanks very much for your response and you are absolutely right as true and successful love is always two sided there is no doubt about that but the main catch is that it is really important to realise that the the person you love is really caring and loving you from his/her soul and have accepted you as you are in every situations of life as every humanbeings life is full of ups and downs.

Yes you are pointing the right thing. Love should always be within the two sides and if its on one side then it is partial.

Hello rinaaus,thanks for your response.Then again someone somewhere said that "Real and succesful love is always two sided and not one sided."For an example if a guy falls in love at his first site towards a girl at the buststop and start dreaming about that girl, even makes friendship with that girl one day and the girl too accepts the guy as her friend then one day the guy propose that girl with his feelings towards her and the girl denies his love proposal and even after that day the guy continously expresses his feelings and the girl feels disturbed.But for that guy it is much important howmuch he loves that girl.Your opinion please.

Hello phayeth, thanks for your response,I agree with you that successful love/marriage relationships are always two sided.

Hello whianne,thanks for your response.I agree with you that succesful love or arranged love relationships/marriage are made in heaven by the decesion of God.But what I feel is love should be two sided,if you see the other person loves you without any artificial effects added with his/her personality/behaviour then automatically your love and responsibilities towards that person will increase.Succesful love/marriage relationships are all about reciprocations, trust and surrender towards each other.But there is a big question mark , can love be measured between two lovers,I mean who loves more or less? as you have written "both are equal in love to each other."

Hello rachelnextdoor,thanks for your response.I believe God has made compatable love pairs for every human being ,may be we humanbeings make some errors during our selection of our partners as a result we face problems in our relationships but I am sure God must have made someone specifically for you on earth who will accept you as you are and both your pain and embarrassment will be converted to life satisfaction of not being alone.

Hello Lydia 1901,Nice to see you after a long gap in my post and thanks for agreeing with the statement.

Hello subha12, Thanks for the response.I apologise for the late reply as I missed your response by error. To make any relationship on earth succesful equal reciprocations is necessary from both side.Thanks again.