What if you or your partner came ran into a celeb crush & things got heated?

TOUGH question! LOL... :p Well, celebrity is still a human being. I will have that excited scream when I saw my celeb crush, hug him and kiss him on the cheeks! BUT, not to the point that I have to sleep with him. =) Respect is necessary in a relationship. :) And it's something that must be preserved in a relationship. Take care and God bless! :)

What an interesting question! Both my partner and myself have celebrities that we are permitted to openly drool over - as long as it is not overly done or used as a comparison to cause offence. Regarding your scenario, I think that either of us would be so overawed to actually come face to face with such a person that we would not even consider our wildest fantasies in their presence let alone try to act them out! I think that if it actually came down to having the opportunity to sleep with a celeb I really don't think it would happen for either of us. It would just be a bit to much like the morning after the night before in "Indecent Proposal" for me.

i do NOT believe in "free passes" no matter what. Cheating is cheating, regardless of who the person is. If my partner can't respect our realtionship and me enough to not want this "free pass" then i don't need to be with that person. Even if i JOKINGLY made the "free pawss" agreement with my partner, i would NEVER act on it and would expect that they woudn't either.

i don't think there would be any person i would allow my partner to hook up with once we're together, famous or not. its how its supposed to be with me, a celebrity is still a real person, and hooking up with one is hooking up with another person, which is cheating to me. for myself, i dont think i would put myself in a situation where i would allow my partner to sleep with his famous celeb crush, no matter how farfetched that may seem at the moment. things, no matter how impossible they might seem at the moment, have a way of happening.

I've watched this event in Friends and it was really funny. Hmmm, I won't allow my partner. I'll tell her I lied hehe

That's a very unique situation so I would let my partner enjoy himself. I trust him and he knows his limitations. If all things go extreme then I would leave him. After all we also agreed that if he slept with another woman I would leave him and vice versa. And celebrities or not, she's still a woman no exceptions.

honestly I do not think I would act on it but I would love to be friends that is for sure. Now if they had made a pass at me that would be different I am just not sure. Sometimes my hubby and I talk about how if something like that happened, we would just go ahead and go through with it, marry the person and then divorce get half of the money and remarry my spouse again...okay that is a little bit severe but I guess we all can have some sort of strange little fantasy about those type of things right?

Ah, I thought I recognized you from one of your other sites! Right now I'm not "with anyone," as the expression goes, but I doubt that my late ex-girlfriend (literally late; she passed away in December of 2006) would have even let me have a list of five celebs I'd have a free pass to sleep with. She was a very possessive and insecure person, and if we'd still been together when I became really active in Epinions, I doubt very much that I could have become friends with any of the female members there. (Especially the attractive ones!) As for how I'd feel about a romantic partner having an "I would like to f--k" list of celebrities, I'm not sure how jealous I'd be. It probably depends on how secure I was about how she feels about me, and how secure my own feelings about her are. I'd like to say (or even think) that I'm immune from jealousy, but I'm not. I've felt the inner demons of jealousy in my own soul a few times, and they've caused me grief. As for the list of celebrity crushes I have now: Reese Witherspoon Halle Berry Catherine Zeta-Jones Bridget Moynahan Kate Bosworth

I would allow my partner to enjoy with her crush, if it happens in reality, and vice versa.

My husband and I have no such list. Simply put, cheating is cheating. If you have committed yourself to a marriage (I can't speak for those who are a couple but unmarried), then you have committed to respecting the marriage and the boundaries. One of which is not adulterizing (I know that's not a real word) with anyone, be it Joe Schmoe down the street or some famous actor. I don't get jealous over my husband's crushes on certain female celebrities. Afterall, I chose him and he chose me. And he and I both have been in the presence of one or more of our celebrity crushes since we've been married. Neither of us attempted anything but a friendly handshake and maybe an autograph. In my husband's case, he met this female singer that he'd adored since before we even met. He worked security for her show, so he had access to her after the show. When he asked for her autograph, she agreed and gave him the autograph, and the next time he went into work, he and a few others were reemed by their superiors. Seems she complained after the show that the security guys had asked for her autograph. There he had been thinking she was this incredibly beautiful, sweet person, when in reality, she was anything but. Needless to say, his opinion of her wasn't quite as favorable after that, and he didn't think quite as highly of her. He believes that it would be the case with most of the female celebrities that he admires.

if i ran into a celeb i will call the shots as to weather he gets some or not! as for a partner if i had one, he'll do what he's told.

With my first wife we never had that kind of list because, well the mere mention of another woman's name in front of her made her blind with jealousy. I'm not exaggerating. But, to answer your question, a celebrity is a person and I think 5 minutes with a lot of them would make us wonder why we ever had a crush in the first place! I'm guessing most of us would react to that opportunity the same as any other opportunity. If you are the cheatin' kind, you will go for it. If not, you won't. I agree with what you said in one of your replies. IF that situation ever actually happened, everything would change. If your partner really loves you, they aren't going to do it because the relationship wouldn't be any less damaged than if it were Bob or Kim down the street.

very interesting question there. i guess i've never considered that because i think that me running into a celeb crush and mingling is a far out idea, i mean what are the chances that i'd run into one and be completely casual with Brad Pitt, right? but let's say that it DOES happen, i think that once we get to know the celebrity, we'd realize that beneath all that glamour and popularity and beauty is just an ordinary person just like me or my partner so i don't think i'd be too agreeable on giving my partner a free pass on it because celebrity or not, i'd feel bad if he got intimate with another person since we're supposed to be committed to each other. i mean, yes she may be a celebrity, but at the end of the day she is still just a girl like me so i don't think that i would be able to justify this free pass. and it would be just the same as picking another ordinary girl over me in that instance. anyway, i think that once you get to know the celebrity, you'd get over the drooling part knowing that he's just like any other human being (better looking, richer, more popular though but still is just like everyone else) and would know better than to pick him over someone you have decided to love or marry.

i think these crushes are useless cause it will never happen but any one should have one or more dream people but dont increase that crush too much cuz it can turn bad

My husband likes a lot of athletes but they are guys. As for me, I have a lot of celeb or athlestes crushes but it never come to my mind to go beyond my ADMIRATION for them, I don't fantasize having a night with them. I am not being hypocrite here but I am sure that hubby and I will NEVER ever exchange our commitment of vow with them. Hell NO! That is one form of cheating! Just in case my hubby will sleep with his female celeb crush, if he has, call me over-reacting or kill joy but I will NEVER ever let it pass. *wink* oh , the way, you have an interesting topic here.