@ethereal_flower on myLot

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 1 Nov 07

A story on the local news gave me this discussion. It seems that a man was jaywalking in our downtown area when he was struck by a car. He will be alright, although he did sustain some injuries. It was observed that he will be...

do you obey traffic signals when crossing

15 responses •

7 people

ethereal_flower usually i obey traffic rules unless i'm in a hurry to get across. but during those times that i really could not wait to get across, i'm really careful that there are no cars coming my way. i rarely break the rules though and i always use the pedestrian lane...

2 Nov 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

ethereal_flower @ethereal_flower (124) • Philippines 1 Nov 07

what's more important to you guys - being a boss or being a friend? i have a friend who was recently promoted to lead her team. they used to be teamates but now she was promoted to be their leader. now things started to become...

boss

friend

professionalism

1 response •

1 person

ethereal_flower thanks for your insight. i guess your team is lucky that you are both their captain and their friend. my friend is having a hard time dealing with her teamates because i think they treat her with less respect. it's not that she is dogmatic or anything like...

2 Nov 07

•

1 person

ethereal_flower @ethereal_flower (124) • Philippines 1 Nov 07

I had a very interesting discussion with two of my friends. one broke up with her boyfriend because her boyfriend had other girls. the other friend also lost her boyfriend because this time, this other friend cheated on her...

infidelity

love

relationship

2 responses

ethereal_flower thanks for your input. i wish i shared your optimism because i agree with you when you say that relationship is something that's built on trust. i trust myself that i won't cheat on anyone. i just don't know if i could bring myself to trust that my partner...

2 Nov 07

•

1 person

ethereal_flower @ethereal_flower (124) • Philippines 1 Nov 07

I had a very interesting discussion with two of my friends. one broke up with her boyfriend because her boyfriend had other girls. the other friend also lost her boyfriend because this time, this other friend cheated on her...

2 responses

ethereal_flower i'm so sorry to hear that. that must be really aweful. i can't imagine how i would react if i found the two people i trust most in the world cheating on me. i know it may be difficult to trust people again, that's what my friend told me. because she got back...

2 Nov 07

dinxcarin @dinxcarin (595) • Singapore 31 Oct 07

Just wonderin' my dear myLot friends which do you prefer? Ebooks or books. As for me, I have slowly been switching to ebooks because I am always mobile and always carry my laptop with me. But I do still miss flipping the pages...

ebooks or books

11 responses •

4 people

ethereal_flower i find ebooks more convenient because i can just access them anywhere. however i find them more strenous to my eyes. and yes, i also love flipping paper pages rather than just clicking and scrolling down using my mouse.

1 Nov 07

•

2 comments

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 31 Oct 07

What is it about mylot that keeps you coming back? I know it can't be just the money.. I like the number of people I have come to know. I have learned so many things about people of different countries that I didnt know...

discussions

forum

mylot

19 responses •

5 people

ethereal_flower the money is a bonus because mylot offers a lot more than money. it has become an interesting source of information and insights and that's what makes this site very interesting. i get to learn a lot more about how people perceive things and best tips on how...

1 Nov 07

•

1 person

irishblanca @irishblanca (34) • Philippines 1 Nov 07

Is it okay to be jealous with your partner? Is it okay to get hurt when you observe that your love one is interested with others? I'm a little bit confused. I love my husband so much, and I'm afraid to lose him. When were...

jealousy

25 responses •

6 people

ethereal_flower i think it is okay to be jealous because it shows that you care enough for the person that you become scared of losing him. i would want my partner to feel scared of losing me because then i would feel that i am an important part of his life. what counts is...

1 Nov 07

•

1 person

ethereal_flower @ethereal_flower (124) • Philippines 1 Nov 07

I had a very interesting discussion with two of my friends. one broke up with her boyfriend because her boyfriend had other girls. the other friend also lost her boyfriend because this time, this other friend cheated on her...

2 responses

meholl @meholl (510) • United States 31 Oct 07

I was talking to my sister the other day, and it struck me that what I was telling her about my relationship with my husband was my definition of true love. We all have our own definition of true love. My hubby and I have been...

relationships

16 responses •

3 people

ethereal_flower wow, that is so good to hear that you are pretty in love with each other and that you really spend time and do stuff for each other. i think that true love is also a decision made by a couple to stay strong and steadfast and to stay loyal and loving to each...

1 Nov 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

lancingboy @lancingboy (1385) • United States 1 Nov 07

Not sure where exactly this is in the bible, but it is in Leviticus. Anyone who knows, feel free to post it lol. No, I do not agree with this, but I know people who DO! There was a debate last night about this subject and one...

11 responses •

4 people

ethereal_flower i went to mass today and the priest said confidently that we could all be saved, not by our religion but by our faith and by our consciences. the priest did not discriminate or did not rule out people from other religions, did not even rule out salvation for...

1 Nov 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

ethereal_flower @ethereal_flower (124) • Philippines 1 Nov 07

what's more important to you guys - being a boss or being a friend? i have a friend who was recently promoted to lead her team. they used to be teamates but now she was promoted to be their leader. now things started to become...

1 response •

1 person

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 17 Oct 07

Hello there. Do you think that the older you get, the harder it is to make TRUE friends? Personally, all of my good friends are from my schooling days. They are the ones whom I know I can trust. I personally find it difficult to...

friend

19 responses •

5 people

ethereal_flower as i got older i found it easier for me to get along with more people but harder for me to really become close friends with them. i have become very picky through the years, compared to my schooling days where i'd be friends with all my classmates and with a...

1 Nov 07

•

1 comment

someonesmom @someonesmom (5761) • Canada 26 Oct 07

My week thus far, has been a mixture of 'the good and the bad.' While rejoicing in my 'pleasant surprises,' an incident took place between my daughter, and one of her 'dearest friends.' My daughter is sixteen, and has been in...

being hurt by a friend

damaged friendship

forgiving a friend

20 responses •

7 people

ethereal_flower i totally agree with you when you say that sometimes you can never get back to where you were before. i was in that situation and even though my friend and i are already in good terms and we already hang out and stuff, it's so hard to get the trust and...

1 Nov 07

•

2 people

someonesmom @someonesmom (5761) • Canada 26 Oct 07

My week thus far, has been a mixture of 'the good and the bad.' While rejoicing in my 'pleasant surprises,' an incident took place between my daughter, and one of her 'dearest friends.' My daughter is sixteen, and has been in...

20 responses •

7 people

ethereal_flower it took me a really long time to get over my bestfriend's backstabbing. i think that it's not the act itself, i really don't care if people talked ill about me because i know myself better than anyone else. i think it's the fact that someone close to my heart...

1 Nov 07

•

1 comment

•

2 people

someonesmom @someonesmom (5761) • Canada 1 Nov 07

Years ago, it was a fairly common thing, for people to 'borrow a cup of sugar,' etc., from their neighbours. I have neighbours who still feel comfortable doing this type of thing, which is fine by me. We live in a city, and...

being a good neighbor

borrowing from a neighbor

12 responses •

6 people

ethereal_flower i am not really comfortable borrowing stuff from my neighbors even if we already go a long way back. but i have no problems lending them stuff like money, bottled water, and other household materials as long as they return them. i think it's great that we're...

1 Nov 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 28 Oct 07

Hello there. I am just wondering if you have cried listening to a song before. For me, I have. In fact, many times. One song that I feel particularly touched by is 'Love Me' by Colin Raye. I cried the first time I heard it when I...

36 responses •

5 people

ethereal_flower it depends on my mood. when i'm feeling sappy and sad, any song could make me cry so easily. i checked out your song and i love it, no wonder it made you cry because i had tears in my eyes while listening to it. when i'm sad and i listen to slow songs, i end...

28 Oct 07

•

1 comment

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 28 Oct 07

Most days I don't watch TV. Not because I have anything against television, but more so because I prefer to work online. But sometimes, I really like watching my home decorating shows. And, usually about that time, my spouse...

family health insurance

26 responses •

5 people

ethereal_flower our TV just got busted and so i spend all my spare time online or hanging out with friends. i find it more constructive. because at least when i'm online, i'm learning new stuff, i'm able to communicate with people, and i'm able to entertain myself at the same...

28 Oct 07

jimsonechave @jimsonechave (19) • Philippines 19 Sep 07

i always thoght of the things i've done in the past and wished never did it. it is embarrasing to tell but, i want to know yours if you are bold enough to share.

experiences

2 responses •

1 person

ethereal_flower i feel bad when i make others feel bad. like when i lose my temper and take it out on other people, i'd wish i could take back the words. the worst thing i guess i've done was when i talked back to my mom and made her feel so bad. it's been years since that...

28 Oct 07

ethereal_flower's Activity