Does your first love remain in your memories forever ??

India
August 18, 2007 12:43am CST
I have such and experience....i had a Girl friend in my high school days....though now we dont have contact with each other,i still am not able to forget her...she remains in my sweet memories of my school days and i am not able to forget her... wonder if that feeling will continue my entire life...
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• United States
18 Aug 07
Yes, he's in my memories but we went through a lot of stuff together and he had a lot of problems so it just didn't work out. I honestly believe that we both hold a tiny, tiny, tiny place in each other's heart. The sad thing is, I can easily see him going from girl to girl and smoking pot all of his life.
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@evanpoe (122)
• United States
19 Aug 07
You almost always remember your first. I was with mine for 5 years and even after all this time I can still say I deeply love her. As chance would have it though, you can love someone but that doesn't mean you're able to spend more than 5 minutes with them without wanting to strangle them.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
19 Aug 07
It is difficult for me to forget it and i don't think it is necessary to forget it. sometimes i will miss my ex-boyfriend, i want to know whether he lives well or not. i think he is my relative now. After all, we live together for 4 years. how many 4 years in a personal life? it is a good memory for me, then i know what is love, and how can i manage my love. i'm glad that i find my Mr.Right now. He is a kind and handsome man. we love each other very much.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
19 Aug 07
Yes, and not just the first love. I have had one really great love which could be considered a first love of that type. I had a couple of loves before that which I did not realize were lesser loves until I found what real love was. When the really great love didn't work out I wondered how I would recognize if it came along again. All I can say is that you may think you are in love and probably are to some degree but a really true love is rare and you will know it when it happens but you will probably be like me and won't be able to describe how you know. But back to the subject I remember all my loves, the great one and the lesser ones.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
18 Aug 07
Yes, most definitely. In fact she still holds half my heart according to a promise. Sure it was a puppy love but it was very meaningful, deep, mature and insightful for both of us. She was incredibly kind and loving, I in turn, returned every bit of it. It was marvelous. And certainly lightyears better than what I found in the dating scene, but I digress. And its very possible you'll remember your first love for years. Thats the way these things work. Even a bad first love is hard to forget because it was your first.