Is it right that life can't be control?

ys,we can't control it.we can make now a change but can't control how things will evoluate tommorrow and so on.but that's the beauty of it.what if we could control everything we will do.it will be as a movie we already seen or a book we have already read.so that's how life it is playing with us,not us playing with it

Yes in a way she is right. There are lots opf things that you cant control...like beating of your heart, though you can control the movement of your arms. Explanation is simple...I mean there are things that you can change but there are things that you cannot control... why? simply because you are not the only person inn the planet and people have different decisions that affect other people. And you cant control other people and so is the situation. Its just like when you want something.. like continue a relationship, or plan better life ahead for you and your partner. No matter how you want it to happen, you cannot control the whole situation alone... you need the cooperation of your partner and the people around you. So it happens that sometimes what you want and what you believe is different from your partner and in the end you will find yourself helpless in controlling the situation. YOu cant control even your own life... the beating of your heart... your dreams... the hunger of your stomach... your heart would stop beating whether you like it or not right? So if you cant fully control your self... how could you manage to control other people.

Well, life is beautiful and life is miserable,it all depends on how you view it. Not everybody's perception about life would be same. Some poeple take life as it goes without any actual planning. Some people take life very seriously and always behing achieving something in their lives. The way what we and the way we would is purely depends on our attitude.Take life as a challenge and believe in the concept joy is not found in reaching the destination but being involved in it. Adopt a positive outlook and I am sure life would be beautiful. Sadanand

It is true, there are certain aspects that cannot be controlled. However, people have free will. It's quite powerful and it allows you to choose and think for yourself. It also means that your life, is your very own. And no one and nothing can ever take this from you. You can go out and make the best of all situations and you'll still be living your life. There are bad spots but thats true of any human life, however you have the ability to make what you will of those events. Most choose to look deeper in those cases, learn from it and improve from there. As long as you are willing to face, learn and grow the pleasure and pain that comes from life then you'll be much stronger and you'll realize it truly is your life. I hope your friend can get over this zdh. You can do what you can to support and help her out, but in the end it will be up to her.