taken for granted

Remember that people get bored easily so ....shortly we will do something just for temporary by then we feel bored and we will forget to do the same thing again so while you still can enjoy it just go for it Just don't give your all when you are not sure... have a nice day gbu

people don't change that sudden..people wont change if they don't wanna change..for me changes comes within..if they wanna change they can change..i had felt so much alike of this now..when all i do is care for everyone else and treated them so much special and in return they took me for granted..never appreciated my deeds but instead used it to condemn me..now i realized that pleasing your love ones is not the best way to show them you love them..its letting them be..i just don't intrude with them now and just wont give and give..i got to give myself a good break and treat extra special now before them..

You know, you just describe what I am going through. My friend and I have being together for 7 years, and lately I feel so neglected. I don't get gifts. I cannot even remember the last time he told me I love you. I keep thinking we are not married I can leave, but have not had the strength to leave yet. I think once they become accustom to you they don't think they have to keep doing the things they did before to keep you.

For me its not about taken forgranted but about having time for everything. Its also important tat even if you already have a special some one its very important to spend time with them.

I don't think its a good idea to spoil someone just because you LOVE them. Remember that anything that is too much is not good. You need to balance everything. And besides, if you truly love them, don't expect something in return. Love them freely without expecting anything in return, you could be happier that way. Don't give too much pressure in yourself because you love someone. Just be yourself. They will definitely love you for you truly are.

Hi, could it be that you are being a little too needy? You deserve to be spoilt too, but make sure that you do not give up your life for your partner. Yes, you can love and adore someone, but stay true to yourself and still have a life of your own. A lot of people, especially men, are turned off by partners being too needy and clingy. Give them space and then they will have time to miss all the great things about you!

I could be wrong with this... But it would seem that you are trying to buy friends by spoiling them rotten. And then you have expectations of them being there for you when you need them. First... expectations are a big no-no. You should never do things with the expectation of getting something in return. What you get in return should come from their heart... not because you make them feel they have to give you something. Two... many people would get unconfortable receiving so many gifts and so much attention... partly because they cannot afford to buy you gifts... or because they simply don't love you as much as you love them. Love is a two ways street. Just because you love someone does not mean that they love you. Real love grow out of mutual understanding. And it does not involve making a person feel special. Making someone special is not love. It is an infatuation... like fatal attraction.

Its true. Sometimes, its because they know they have you - and no longer need to work so hard. Its hard. I think we need to be cautious but not harden ourselves. It can be a scary thing to open yourself up. But its being a warrior. For a warriour has strength and courage - and what takes more strength and courage then opening yourself and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. We should still be cautious though, and take our time. Your a good person, a loyal and true friend I hope your experiences don't change this. There's a song I sing to my baby, you can look up the full lyrics online, its called Wonderful Baby and is sung by Don Mclean. One stanza comes to mind with this topic: Wonderful baby, nothin' to fear, Love whom you will, but doubt what you hear, They'll tell you sweet things, to make you untrue, So be good to yourself, its all you can do.