so many weddings around!when i will get marry too?
By andrejuly84
@andrejuly84 (1047)
Romania
August 19, 2007 3:52pm CST
in august in our country are celebrating many weddings as the romanians that are left during the year working in other countries like italy or spain are coming back on vacation and as they have money they come to make their weddings here cause is cheaper.so i become so melancolique and thinking when i will be a bride too as i was dreaming in my childhood and teenage.wheredid all my dreams and whopes go?
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
20 Aug 07
Hi andrejuly84! I used to feel that way before, I thought I will never get to walk down the aisle because I got so busy with my career before. All of a sudden when I felt so hopeless that I thought it will never ever happen, I got married and had my wedding on the month of December, four days before Christmas. So don't worry dear, you'll might have it sooner than you expect. Things happen when you don't expect it. Take care and I will be praying and wishing that your dreams will come true. Have a nice day!
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
20 Aug 07
Don't worry dear, there is your dream man waiting too.He is waiting for just the right time,God has selected for you two.You will soon hear the wedding bells ringing for you. At present you can enjoy the joy of being alone and waiting whole-heartedly for someone to enter your life.He will come very slowly and step into your life, you will not even come to know, how it happened.Good Luck Dear...!!!!!
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@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
21 Aug 07
that's the problem,that i am not alone,i have a partner and a child with him.only things didn't happened how i dreamed to
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
you're just 23 and I'm 25! ^__^;; and I'm still not married. sometimes I feel like I'm being left out because almost all of my friends have already settled down with a husband and kids. but I don't want to hurry myself though. my time will come when I will enter the church and walk down the aisle. ^__^ as of now I'm just enjoying my freedom and single-ness and I'm free from worries of responsibilities and obligations. ^__^
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@andrejuly84 (1047)
• Romania
20 Aug 07
i'm 23 i have a child and have a partner for about 6 years.we didn't get marry because e had no money for doing this and also for all the fights between us
@twinbulls1980 (104)
• United States
9 Oct 07
hi andrejuly,
i feel the same way you do. i'm 27 years old and never married. in fact, my best girl friends are all married and i've been with the same guy for a couple of years and we have not taken the next step. we've talked about it, but i broke up with him for a few months because i felt that he didn't take our relationship seriously enough for marriage. we are back together to try it again, but, i don't know if he would propose to me anytime soon since i dumped him earlier this year. it's frustrating to think that it seems so easy for others to marry, but i also have to look at it this way: at least i'm taking the time to really know what makes me happy and what i can and cannot deal with. if i get married and it doesn't work out, at least i've figured out that i can be on my own and take care of myself.
this may not have answered your question in totality, but, it's important to realize that the prospect of marriage should be an extra "bonus" to life and you deserve to enjoy it to the fullest. i don't want to tell you that it will happen when it will happen, just give it time; i want to say that you should love yourself regardless of your marital status.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Well, just hang in there and you will find someone someday. Don't rush because you want to get marry, make sure it is the right person when you agree to marry him.
@xiaovivien (154)
• China
8 Oct 07
I think if you meet you true love,you will be married soon,donnot worried,maybe the best love is going to knock at your door,best wisher,god bless.