Humor in a relationship..!!
By medstudents4
@medstudents4 (826)
India
August 20, 2007 9:27pm CST
hi friends,how much importance you give to humor in a relationship?here what i mean by relationship is mainly regarding your love life..but you can say the other way too like in friendship ..from my side i will say i give it a lot of importance as i admire and enjoy it.. my beau has a great sense of humor which attracted me the most towards him apart from other good things..and it is one of those things that have always kept us on the happy side..even most of my friends i choose usually have a good sense of humor..so what do you say?and even if the sense of humor of any of you is not that good..how much you like to create humor in your own way in your pal/partner..?i think it is very necessary be it any kind of relationship...
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
21 Aug 07
I place a lot of importance in it. To me its a sign of life, love, spirit and vitality. It also shows kindness and I find that very important in a significant relationship.
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@medstudents4 (826)
• India
21 Aug 07
so true..really it is a sign of spirit and life in a relationship..
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@medstudents4 (826)
• India
23 Aug 07
well said fikiabc,really..it becomes easier to deal with other persons if you make them happy..and also they get a nice impression about you.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
its important for me that my partner has a good sense of humor. he doesn't have to be funny all the time, or he doesn't have to clown around.. but.. there are times when humor or a joke is needed. also, I like a partner who can appreciate a good joke. I don't like those who are so sensitive and get pissed so easily by a wholesome practical joke. ^__^
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
22 Aug 07
Yes it is very important to have humor in a relationship. Hubby and I surely do and we joke or tease each other almost daily. We've been married 16 years and have been through our share of ups and downs but we've worked together and toughed it out and came out smelling like a rose. Communication and laughter is the key to a great relationship or marriage.
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@medstudents4 (826)
• India
23 Aug 07
thats so good of both of you...wish you always be happy like that..!!
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@Laurla98 (786)
• United States
21 Aug 07
Humor is a huge part of it for me. I found that it brought me out of my shell being with someone with a sense of humor. And it kept me from being too serious. I've found it also helps when we argue. We usually can end up laughing about our arguments right after they happen, if not during. All one of us has to do is start smiling at the other one and we realize how stupid we sound. We definitely have our own sense of humor that only we can understand. People look at us like we're nuts sometimes...but we just remind them that it works for us.
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@medstudents4 (826)
• India
21 Aug 07
really we also end up laughing sometimes when we argue..when we were studying together in our school we used to laugh a lot passing silly remarks about each other..it was fun and even today we enjoy these things..+
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@eprado (1467)
• Philippines
27 Aug 07
I think humor plays a lot of deal and is very important in a relationship. Without humor relationships will be boring, can you imagine spending long period of time together and just being serious. I would'nt last for a few hours. :-)
