when you love a person, do you give it all or do you make a safe zone?

My friend, there is no such safe zone in love. Love is in your entire body and soul. But it is appropriate to say don't give hope. As love is intangible thing and there are so many categories for love; blind love, true love, one love, monkey love,.....and which category your love falls into?

Choices and chances these are the things most people had to ponder upon. Choices are in the whimsical province of the person while chances is waiting for an apple to fall. Trust is a matter of choice. Once you trust the person you love, then you should give it all. Loving someone is not a matter of chance it's a matter of choice. It's a a suit that fit, we should wear it. I hope this helps. Thank you.

if i love a person.. i will not give my all my heart to him..i will just give him a safe zone.. because maybe somedays that person hurts me..and its hurts me a lot... and if he will do that..i wanna gone in these world..

I gave it all to my first love and didn't make a safe zone at all. Later when she betrayed me, I was hurt for a few years until my wife came to my life. I love my wife wholeheartedly as I did to my first love. We love each other without making any safe zone.

Also, if you give your all to that person and shut out everyone else, you will not have anybody to lean on or cry to when he does hurt you.

For me there is a safe zone, even though my very first true love I didn't need one (plus I wasn't as "red-pilled"). Years later, and "experiences" later its very different. I'll have some resistance but I'll slowly dispel the barrier the more I get to know and the more I learn about the person. If I can actually trust the individual then the barrier comes down. But yea, being hurt isn't funny and having repeats is not on my to do list.

I tend to give my all, no I think I give more maybe too much, but now I am trying to be a little more careful as I have been very hurt in the past so now is time for me to look after my self first, so I am being a little more selfish these days.

it does not matter, keep loving every body with all your heart and mind.

i would like to give all.becuase when i meet my true love,i prefer to devote myself rather than reserve.once we break up,i won't regret,there are still some beautiful memories for me.

I would never put my guard down when it came to relationships until my ex boyfriend came around...and I got my heart broken. I knew I shouldn't have let myself fall in love with him because I didn't trust him. But with my new boyfriend I have put up my guard again even though I trust him completely. I guess I'm just too afraid to get hurt to let myself fall in love again.