Being selfish

Hi, laurika (109); This is the right time to prove to yourself that you are improving. Don't blame your brother, if one day you take to blame your brother, means you are loosing your verve energy for 365 hours in a year. There always gaining while in pain. At least we know who is the doctor. Make your own money and you definitely can be better than your brother in someday. Better or not it depends on money and personality. No point to be good with no money and more worse if rich with bad personality. Think about business for your long run. Lets start from with humble beginning. What ever good is your brother but he is still an employee not the employer. When you rich in future don't take revenge to your brother, but must be more closer to him and make money from his expertise. Leading does not means for to be first but gain in controlling. Remember lauroka, same blood will never split. Just like air and wind. Like water and steam. You must take positive steps from what you are having now. This is the process for you to be rich in future. I firmly believe that you can do it.

It is the commonest behavioural pattern of many human beings. People tend to forget the path they have treaded and when the reach the success, they foreget and it gets into their head. They do not talk through their heart but become arrogant. What you should do is to have your ambition and aim as your front runner and ignore him. You achieve your aims and success. Never compare with your brother, may be more may be less. All the best in your endeavours.

it's just the way people are. before judging somebody else as selfish, you must judge yourself first. why do you call these people selfish when u yourself is selfish. i say this because you are selfish too even though you don't know it. let me tell you why. you want people to recognize you right? this is one way that tells me that you are selfish too. you are not understanding everyone when you call them selfish but not yourself. you want attention too and this is why you are selfish too. you want only you to be talked about by your friends. you must not judge others. being selfish is not bad. it's just normal for a person to think of herself or himself as high as she or he wants.

Hi laurika! It is common for people who are close to you to brag about themselves and it is only understandable that you are hoping that they give you some kind of attention because as you have mentioned, you are in a new place, new country, etc. I guess, you are quite having some anxieties over the changes in your life right now and you are not quite adjusted yet. Maybe, it would be better to talk to your brother about this so he can understand what's going on with you right now. Sometimes people, can't guess what you are feeling even though they are very close to you. Take care dear and I hope you will be adjusting soon in your new home.

hi laurika.. just dont mind all this, its not because all of them dont really care for you, its just cos they are busy with their life and maybe dont get time,or because they always take you for granted.... dont get sad 4 this... which place are you in right now? n why u dint do anything of late? anyway, cheer up, n enjoy life as it comes. can i be your friend? would love to...u sound really sweet 2 me. take care and keep smilin. cheers.

RELAx! you know laurika, more often than not, people don't realize that they're talking about themselves only. I myself do it sometimes. That doesn't mean that they don't care about you, that just means that they trust you to listen to them! now, doesn't that sound honorable?

hiee Laurika,so don't misunderstand anyone so they might be excited with their greatness,so thats okay appreciate them.And living alone in other countries is the great thing,living independent is your dareness let them won't one or the other they will know so wait for that and till then don't get dissappointed,we are matured and grown up why should you depend on others tel me..!!this is the time to prove yourself..!!just Go ahead to reach your goal..!!just don't feel bad for that it happens sometimes..!! All the best..

just fill yourself up to overflowing and just allow others to notice this. you actually don't have to point this out. or if you really want to, you can open up to your brother about your day, how you are, and everything. sometimes we love to talk about ourselves and sometimes just get carried away. i'm sure if you started to talk about yourself then that will be a healthy conversation for you.

I think a lot of people think about themselves, even if they seem to care of anybody. I know, I'm pessimistic but I think it's the human nature...

Each person is different. Some are completely evil, like Hitler, some are completely good, like Mother Theresa. Most are a little in between, a little good and a little bad. You have to learn how to deal with each indvidual. However, remember, it is best to stay away from those who are selfish and abusive and exploit you, Seek out and find those who are nice to you and treat you well. That is the secret of life.