family = (f)ather (a)nd (m)other (i) (l)ove (y)ou

India
September 2, 2007 7:55am CST
I ran into a stranger as he passed by, "Oh excuse me please" was my reply. He said, "Please excuse me too; I wasn't watching for you." We were very polite, this stranger and I. We went on our way and we said goodbye. But at home a different story is told, How we treat our loved ones, young and old. Later that day, cooking the evening meal, My son stood beside me very still. When I turned, I nearly knocked him down. "Move out of the way," I said with a frown. He walked away, his little heart broken. I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken. While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said, "While dealing with a stranger,common courtesy you use, but the family you love, you seem to abuse. Go and look on the kitchen floor, You'll find some flowers there by the door. Those are the flowers he brought for you. He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue. He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes." By this time, I felt very small, And now my tears began to fall. I quietly went and knelt by his bed; "Wake up, little one, wake up," I said. "Are these the flowers you picked for me?" He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree. I picked 'em because they're pretty like you. I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue." I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today; I shouldn't have yelled at you that way." He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay. I love you anyway." I said, "Son, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially the blue." FAMILY Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you think? So what is behind the story? Do you know what the word FAMILY means? FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU This was so touching i had to share it with all my friends here on mylot :)
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
2 Sep 07
A lovely, moving and touching piece indeed, Ano! Thank you for sharing this with us. Alongside my spiritual relationship, my family and friends are very important part of my life. I leave my work, after office hours, if my family asks for my time, because being with them is more enjoyable and blissful than doing job more than required. I thank them for being with me. Now, as they are away from me, I see them for hours on cam (as DSL connection is available now), even when they are sleeping. I do not bother them though and see them if they choose, and have the time, to spend with me. I see them as a movie because they leave the cam open while they do their stuff and I watch them, a sort of reality TV for me, LOL! Thanks again for sharing, it was great.
• India
3 Sep 07
Hello Kamran Reality TV of your family wow lovely i am sure you enjoy every moment of it. And yes no matter what we do in our professional life we need a family to share it with only then all the madness we go through in our everyday life makes sense :)
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
7 Sep 07
you make good sense, Ano!:-)
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 07
This is so true and many Parents do not realize this I would never hold an Argument I would always cuddle my Children I have to be honest I have said to my Children you should not have been in the way but in the next Breath I apologized to and hugged them as I always felt awful because really I should have also watched what I was doing If I did wrong I would always apologize no matter who it was that is just me I even apologize when I am not in the wrong lol
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 07
Lol I know but I have to try and stop that lol
• India
2 Sep 07
Hello Gabs LOL yes i can see that - u apologizing even when u r not wrong :) you are too sweet and i am really happy i can say 'you my friend' :)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
7 Sep 07
That is a lovely post. And the truth is that ...that's what most of us do. Take our families for granted. It reminded me of all those times that I've been rude to my son when I've been busy and had no time for his little joys (just a couple of times). But it broke my heart to read that. I will be passing this on to all my friends. Thank you for making us realize how we tend to overlook our family.
• India
8 Sep 07
Hello SViswan you are most welcome and i am really happy a made a wee bit of difference in how you would be viewing relationships :) and happy mylotting :)
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
8 Sep 07
family= (f)ather (a)nd (m)other (i) (l)ove (y)ou i like it very much. how do you think of it? you are a clever girl/boy. i think it is difficult for me to say 'thank you' and 'sorry' to my prarents. once, my mom said 'thank you' to me, then i feel very ashamed. i just gave her a mobile, and she say 'thank you' to me. how many things my parents give to me! and i had never said thank you to them. and sometimes i have a quarrel with them if they can't accept my request. frankly, i feel very ashamed of it.
• India
8 Sep 07
Hello wonderful i am a girl LOL and of not that clever anyway i understand we find it difficult thanking our parents but the fact that you are not ok with it slef shows that you want to grow and make a difference. Thats what life is all about. We grow with our experiences. Learn to accept things and don't be too hard on yourself.
• India
2 Sep 07
very good ano, you post makes me thinks of maore ways to be kinder at home. it' s so ttrue, we can love our family so so much more but sadly sometimes we take out all our frustrations on them. they are our family, our flesh and blood, and not garbage bins. love, apple.
• India
2 Sep 07
Hello Apple, o yes but most times we end up treating them exactly like what you said :) but i still think if we are aware we can always make a change :)
• India
3 Sep 07
sob sob. i know. lol. lots of smile, apple.
• China
3 Sep 07
hello.. ano.. really nice and touching.. when i read your post tears rolled down of my eyes... ya.. its really very true.... and we should change the way we act in house or with family... we act hard thinking family is own and do not need to be so polite... it does not matter at all... but in fact it really matters....
• India
3 Sep 07
Hello chiewang welcome to mylot and i hope you enjoy it here :) as slong as we dont take them for granted i guess we are ok we learn as we go :)
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
3 Sep 07
That is really splendid. Thanks for posting very interesting topic and I enjoyed reading it.
• India
3 Sep 07
you are most welcome ssh and i am really happy you enjoyed reading it :)
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
3 Sep 07
this post is so touching that it almost make me cry... you are so right... we always take our family for granted and sometimes we treat other people better than our own family members... your post certainly do remind us again and i hope that i will change my behaviour towards my family... thanks for the nice post...
• India
3 Sep 07
Hello lingli i am really happy you enjoyed the post and yes the moment we are aware of what we are doing i am sure we will not take things for granted :)
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
2 Sep 07
I loved it when I read and I admin that make me fell little sad too.I'm sure few times I find myself at same situation like the mother at the poem.Yes we apologize later but the best was we never did the mistake from the beginning. The only thing we have is try be better every day.After all to have a happy family need every day of hard work...
• India
2 Sep 07
Hello aidonia yes i understand and what you say is so true we are humans and we just need to keep doing our best and trying to do better every day :)
• India
2 Sep 07
Frankly, i didnot read the entire post, but i am here to say, about how you defined the Word Family. It is so apt and beautiful. Hmmmm.. You have some nice good friends to share/send these kind of mails to you. Carry on girl. Have a nice time.
• India
2 Sep 07
Thank you Venketesh :) its really nice hearing from you always :)
• United States
3 Sep 07
It just reminds me of how sad my life is. Thank you very much for the poem. I tend to skip family functions and work a lot it seems like all i do is avoid my family. It works for a while but eventually they confont you. sure you get away from the drama that they bring but you actually cut yourself off from your own blood. It makes me feel pathetic for not liking my family, there really all you have to turn to and i avoid them thank you for the poem.
• India
3 Sep 07
hello buddy :) family can be both a boon and bane in our lives and i understand if you have broken your ties you must have a very good reason don't feel guilty. The 'not taking for granted' works both ways you know. maybe they took you for granted and thats the reason for the dislike so just remember 'you' are important too :) Happy mylotting :)