I hate being bashed by someone who doesnt know me, dont you?

@jeanena (2198)
Bucklin, Kansas
September 3, 2007 2:55pm CST
Here is the story I have an item for sale on ebay that came from the town i use to live in. I had someone else from Greensburg send me a nasty e-mail in the questions about item. This is what they sent me. "Are you even from Greensburg? How did you get this brick, supposedly from our highschool, to sell? This is a absurd auction. People who use our disaster for their own good, instead of donating the proceeds to the disaster relief fund, are SICK. How do you sleep at night? " I lost 2 cars and furniture and pictures just like the people who were there that night did. Unlike some of them I wasnt compensated for the lost cars(neither was my cousin). I wont send anything to the disaster relief fund because the people who were supposed to get the money hasnt gotten it.The federal government is already investigating the city government because of this. Anyone who knows me knows that I will help people anytime I can.I do and have doen this many times before. Even to the point of hurting us financially at times. How would you feel if someone said this to you?
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
3 Sep 07
I would tell them to clean up their own backyard before they sat in judgement on someone else. There is no excuse for their behavior. Blast them back!
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
3 Sep 07
I did send them back a messege and let them know that I did lose things there too. Too many people jump without know the whole of things. Thank you for your response!
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• United States
4 Sep 07
Good for you Jeana I hope she felt dumb.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
4 Sep 07
You are probably right but it doesn't hurt to bring it to their attention.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Sep 07
Like you very upset I hope you will report this Person to E bay as they need to do something about this Person Please do not let it upset you to much They are just everywhere and it is awful how People can be so nasty and evil Hugs to you
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@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
3 Sep 07
Actually i did report the email to ebay. We have an old saying around here "dont let the b@$tards get ya down" Thank you for the HuG I can use each and everyone I get.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Sep 07
Well here is lots more for you and I have plenty more to give you Big Big Hugs
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@nana1944 (1364)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Wow, you never told me about that when I talked toyou on the phone earlier. Did they give you their name? I might know them as I lived there longer than you did.This pis*es me off. If people don't know you then they shouldn't judge you. But then hypocrites abound in that little town of horrors. That is why they don't like me there because I told then the truth about things. I did not go behind their backs saying things things and If I had it would have been the facts. If I didn'tknow them them then I wouldn't say them. Sounds like a witch that lived to the East on your side of the street. And East ofme on the other side of the street.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
4 Sep 07
sounds about like something she would do , but they only had their ebay ID not the name . Sounds like alot of the people we know from there to not put their real name on the e-mail.
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@rietab (30)
• United States
3 Sep 07
A lot of people are profitting from this disaester that didn't live there. So maybe they need to sent emails to all the over paid,no working people that came in there and drawed checks for things they didn't even do.
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@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
3 Sep 07
I agree with you on that.There is many companies that came in and didnt even finish the jobs they were have supposed to have done.
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@linoxy (283)
• Cyprus
4 Sep 07
Why do you even bother with this? I would just ignore them, and report them to Ebay. This world is full of rude ppl. That kind of comments should not touch your soul. Just ignore.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
4 Sep 07
I did report them. And no I wont let people like that bother me too much.We are each responsible for our own actions. Thank you for your response!
@linoxy (283)
• Cyprus
5 Sep 07
glad that you don't bother with this anymore :)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Jeanena, There are some mean and vicious people out there.Also very judgemental.I too have an ebay site and if a book gets lost in the mail I have received rude emails.I too am a most giving person and will add things sometimes to orders, either more fabric or more books depending on person and circumstance. I am a single mom with little income due to back injury and fibermyalgia.I do not have money to cover PO mistakes! I find people judge us without knowing us online.Tho hurtful it is THEIR ignorance not US that is the problem. You and others know your true heart so be encouraged!! I have also met some really good people out there too. Rose
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Sep 07
Irishmom, first let me say welcome to Mylot I hope you have a great time here and make lots of friends.I did take some advice from their second email no matter how hateful it was meant to be .I added to my auction description and said what the proceeds were for.Thank you for responding!
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I can't believe someone would say something like this without knowing the person. This is the type of person who has an opinion for everything even if they don't know what they are talking about. Don't let this bother you because you know that you are a good person inside.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Sep 07
Mirita thank you for your comments,and you are probley right . There are just some people out there who judge people with no clue about them.
• United States
4 Sep 07
I get that a lot from people. A lot of people bash me or put me down and they know nothing about me.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
4 Sep 07
I am sorry to hear that, no one should judge a person with out knowing the whole story.thank you for your response!
• Canada
4 Sep 07
I would be hurt that someone would have the nerve to email something like this to me without knowing me but wouldn't bother to respond back . There is some place that you can block individuals from ever contacting you again and I would be sure to block them as you don't want this individual trying to buy something from you at a later date and causing problems . Anyone who would waste their time to send out a nasty email like this is only someone who likes to hurt others and has a lot of spare time to waste . They are not worth your time or effort in ansering back to them . Try not to take it to hard , those who know you , know that you are not trying to make a profit off of something tragic and those are the people who are important and the only people who should mattter . Take Care .
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Sep 07
I will have to check about blocking someone from bidding on an auction.I did answer them and told them about my losses as well. I havent heard back from them after that.
• United States
4 Sep 07
That was very rude of them to say that to you. I would have also sent them an email back and told them what i thought of them. I cant believe that people who were promised to get help didnt receive it. Good luck to you.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
4 Sep 07
Tornado car - This is one of my Cars that was in the may 4th 2007 Tornado
Most of the people who were promised help did recieve it.There was us and a few others who werent compensated for our cars.they said my car wasnt damamged enough. I dont see how i could have driven it
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
You've already done your part in explaining to them (as you have here) the reasons for your not donating to the relief fund. Maybe they don't share your views. I, however, agree with you that you're not taking advantage of other people's pain, but merely looking after your own family when those who should extend you some relief don't.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
4 Sep 07
Thank you for your response. I would love to be able to take away the pain of all the people who lost everything they had. All those years of memories.