The WOMAN you really love so much

I think you regret splitting up with your ex girlfriend in the first place. You have not been as happy in relationships with any of your more recent girlfriends. You know that you are still in love with your ex girlfriend. So it is lucky that you are still in contact with her. I would suggest that you stay friends with her. Then you could wait to see if you can get closer. She might split up with her current boyfriend. Alternatively you could have a chat with her and tell her that as you still love her you want the both of you to get back together again. You are unlikely to forget her and may not be pleased to lose her as a friend. You might find someone you love even more or you might end up with an okay sort of girlfriend. Whatever happens you will probably stay in love with your ex girlfriend and it you lose contact you will miss her terribly. Good luck.

Its your first love so it happens. It definitely takes time but you will get over it. Not 100% completely but enough to truly move on and live life without that restriction. The memory will still be there, but eventually you'll take steps to move on from it. It also sounds like patching it up isn't going to happen. Accept it, don't pine over her and waste your energy (some would say she gets a sick pleasure in being admired like this, don't give it to her, you are worth much more). Take a deep breath and enjoy life as it is. Don't rush what you want either, with patience things that come and the things you earn are much sweeter.

well, if u really still love her.. try to ask if she still feel the same why as u feel for her. for that span of 3 years and she got only 1 boyfriend.. then maybe they split-up.. its means she try to move on but she still not ready.. and she still loves u.. maybe the reason why she ignores it when u told her u still lover, its beco'z she still loves u too.. and she just afraid.. afraid that the same way will happened again if she gives it a second time.. well, its up to u if u will forget her or not.. its ur decision..

i know actually how you feel, you feel that there is a chance that you two can get back together, because you still really love her, it is ok to love someone and keep her in your heart, but that doesnt mean you cant move on and find someone else, you can always remember the good time you two share

If you still love her after three years, you probably always will. If she does not want to be with you , you are just punishing yourself by still talking to her. I think you need to take a break and do some serious soul searching of your own, and when you are finished with that I think then if you are still in love with her you should ge to her and tell her how you really feel. If she knows how you feel and she does not return the feelings, then the best thing to do is let her fly and if it was meant to be she will fly back to you. You know the saying, "if you love someone let them go..." I love my first "real" boyfriend of my adult life still to this day, and we still talk. I did some searching, and eventually told myself that he may not love me anymore, but that should not stop us from being friends.

I don't feel like that about my ex-girlfriend. I'm glad I have really moved on. My advice to you is to just relax. Sometimes it's good for the woman to have other boyfriends, and for you to have other girlfriends. Sometimes that's the best way to appreciate each other, when you have tried dating other people. If you're meant to be it will happen. Just stay friends for now and give her time. Maybe she was traumatized from her last relationship and just needs time to heal. Maybe she needs to date more men before she can finally appreciate you more. Just be patient, continue to love her but don't pressure her into a relationship.

Hello eir000!(",) I think your ex-girlfriend is having difficulty of trusting you once again because she has been hurt before. You better show her that it's worth the second time around, that is if she still loves you. Girls need persuasion and constant attention. Good luck to you!(",) God bless and hope that you can still win her heart!(",)

If she was your first true love you will never forget her. There are some people in the world who can be very much in love but cannot live together. If your still friends you haven't lost your girlfriend you have gained a good friend which in some cases is a better relationship friends are forever if they are true to you.