tipz to get over him.. easily

Philippines
September 6, 2007 1:19pm CST
hi everyone! breaking up is hard to do. but the relationship is really falling apart and there's nothing you can do because he has found someone better. what will you do to get over him .. EASILY?
4 responses
@reveria (51)
• United States
6 Sep 07
If you truly liked him or loved him or if he truly hurt you, it's not going to be easy any way you cut it. If it were me, i would start looking around to see who in my life needs help right now and pour my energy into that. Why? Because it'll help me get over him, help keep me busy plus he won't get the satisfaction of a big reaction from me that he's expecting (that will be a small revenge which will fester and make him start doubting himself...too bad for him) and helping others will make me feel good and when i feel good i will automatically do things that will make myself look good. Eg, i will eat good, dress well, be able to smile and that positive energy will most likely help me to find or attract a good guy in the future. If this is you, i hope and wish you all the best and happiness
• Philippines
6 Sep 07
hahaha.. not me!but i thank you though for the reply. actually,it's my friend who just recently broke up from his boyfriend and i can feel the pain that she's been through because admit or not we've been too in that kind of situation :)
• United States
14 Nov 07
First and foremost, delete his number from your cell. If you see his number or pic in your cell, you'll be more prone to text or call. Erase those cute little texts he sent that you saved in your inbox. Dont go to places you guys used to hang out. Try to avoid these places because chances are, hes gonna take the new girl there too... And it would be a terrible thing to see them together.
• United States
15 Sep 07
Well, I have been there a few times. And, I ended up working more hours, and having more time out with my girlfriends. But, then I found myself thinking about how I wished he was there when I went out. hmm....so really, the only thing that worked for me was working lots of extra hours, and pampering myself. I took myself to the spa twice a week, got manicures and pedicures, full body massages........all that good stuff. He never made me feel THAT good.......lol
• Iceland
3 Oct 07
I would cry for few days just to let all anger out then i would get rid off all his stuff, get a new hairstyle, by myself some new clothes, have a girls night out and be happy over his loss because something better is coming my way:)