I'm having fun on myLot, and I don't care if I'm deleted or down rated

@barehugs (8973)
Canada
September 8, 2007 12:45am CST
I think its silly to worry about your( so called) friends deleting you from their lists......So what if they do? Its their right. And the same with being down rated. It happens to everyone, sometime, and what difference does a different coloured star make anyway? My biggest thrill is to put my thoughts out for all to see. I do this all the time and I'll stick to my opinions no matter what! Downrate me and see if I care! You won't see me whineing about it Thats for sure! I say what I think, and I think what I say, and thats that..... Whats your opinion about this?
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@yvonnee (23)
• New Zealand
8 Sep 07
I agree with you. I think perhaps your attitude has a little to do with your age and maturity. I remember reading that at 20 we worry about what people will think of us, at 40 we stop worrying about what people will think of us, and at 60 we realise they weren't thinking about us anyway.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
8 Sep 07
hahaha yes im sure you are right, at 60 we realise that they wernt thinking about us anyway. It is certainly true blessed be
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
When I started this Post I had no idea everyone would agree. But I'm not complaining! Its fun to be on the winning team occasionally! Play Ball!
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
Thats a real cute response Yvonnee! I'm giving you Best response for your humour!
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
8 Sep 07
Eh, I'll still say the rating system is broken. Plus some people don't trust me since I have a lower star. Still, I've been able to win over others and convince them I'm really an asset here. So, fine whatever I'm rated, that's that. Plus I know my responses just irritate some loser that can't confront me. As long as I keep on here and keep going, it'll just irritate the clown further.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
I don't make an effort to, "irritate" But I expect some of my Posts and Responses have done. I get a kick out of saying exactly what I think and feel, all the while not worrying about the consequences. Its not often in Life that we have a platform where we can speak our Minds.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
9 Sep 07
I don't irritate either. I'm just stating how my current situation is. I just post when I can, but someone really doesn't like it. And I do agree. This platform for free speech is pretty cool.
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• United States
8 Sep 07
I'm simply here to have fun too. I like watching my post count go up more than I pay attention to the star because I don't usually say anything negative about anything and my star rating has gone down. Well, I've had to pay some sort of attention to know that, but it isn't so important. It is the socializing and I'm sure I've been knocked off friends list. Truthfully, I don't pay much attention to that either. I just want to talk to everyone whether they are on my list or not.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
Yeah its fun and kinda addictive too. I Usually put in a couple of hours in the evening on here. You said it all!
@calcpc (2)
• Romania
8 Sep 07
i like this site!
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
me too!
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
10 Sep 07
I do value my friends list, but only if they are true friends. If you want to add me to your friends list, just to have me on your list, and to be just another number, and never make a comment on any of my discussions, then just Move ON. I have deleted many people from my list, because they are not really my friends, and no I did not feel bad. They just want to get friends in hopes that the friends will comment on their discussions. And in return they never even comment on anything on your page. I'll tell you what. Most of these people post one liners that are lame, and looking for a few Cents. Pick and choose as you like. Thats what I do.
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@irishmist (3814)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Maybe I said it wrong. I love my friends. I ment the people that want to be your friend, and request you to be on their friends list, but have not commented on any of your posts. So then why do they want to be my friend?
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
11 Sep 07
Thats easy for you to say! But I value everyone as a friend regardless, whether or not they respond to my Posts. Friendship is not about making Money on myLot. Its about the fellowship and comradery that you feel when you are interacting with your friends. "A friend is someone who knows all about you and Loves you just the same!"-Elbert Hubbard.
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
9 Sep 07
I am trying to keep a positive attitude too. I just reached my 100th post and my number was only a 6. I admit to being a little bit surprised. I never comment on any discussion that I really don't have anything to add to. I don't give "one-liners." I steer clear of most of the topics that get people riled up, so I really have no idea. Anyway, I am going to keep posting regardless of what the star says!
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
Your doing ok, but don't be frightened. The topics that get people going are the best to get responses. Let it all Hang out and the Devil take the Hindermost!
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
8 Sep 07
well, i must admit its funny that we take this stuff far too seriously. I mean we are all here to have fun, arnt we?
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
9 Sep 07
yup! We sure are!