Do You Shower With Your Partner?

HAHA, yes I agree with you Raijin, it would be another story completely had I been showering with somebody else's partner =P There's definitely more shocking, controversial and negative things that a person could be doing than sharing hygiene and togetherness with their partner =D Thank you for your wonderful response, and have a wonderful day!

Curvaceous. I love going to the Kohler site and salivating over the showers and baths. In this one house tour online there was an environmental shower or room. It sounded cool but I can't find it anymore - I just tried again! Daniel wants to get a walk in shower - the kind you walk around a bend to get to the shower. I too can just stand there - being scalded - and think or daydream - or not think....Its the part of the day I look forward to the most because its a time when I get to be absolutely alone - no baby nearby, crying or wanting my attention. I can be Amy and not just mommy. We have three bedrooms yet we use just one as all of the monitors we get stop working, and its not batteries or channel. I think its me - I don't know if you saw that one thread I did where I mentioned how the tv in the living room - I can see it from the family will turn off, or come off mute and then off again. Or with the remote nowhere near me it will turn off or on suddenly when its hasn't been on or change channel and other electronic disturbances near me. I must be throwing out energy like a teenage poltergeist or something. LOL. Anyway, where was I going - Oh! - the baby is always close by and as much - I kept typing snd snd and going back and typing it again - I love him its nice to get a break. Everyday I look forward to this time, like a rendevous with a lover, its not just the shower but how I feel after, all pulsating from the heat. Slowly combing out my hair, prolonging the alone time. I turn on the air filter for som white noise and the overhead fan. Reveling, knowing that nine times out of ten, I open that door, it will be to pissed off screams, and sometimes to real crying and tears. And then its mommy again until the next day around the same time!

I'm really funny with the amount of hot water I like. By myself, I love it to be scalding, and steamy, but when Alex is joining, it gets too stuffy with too much heat, especially when we might be getting a little heated ourselves ;] =D You guys just need a bigger shower with multiple heads is all (yay for big shoulders lol). I saw the most amazing shower once, with 3 heads. It was circular and looked SOOOO nice. It would just be the ultimate, but I know that no-one else would ever get any water, and I would be late to anything that I needed to have a shower before. =P I always use showers as my thinking time. I can stand there for an hour, without having actually cleaned myself, just thinking and being =D It can be hard for Alex and I as well, making sure that we're both getting sprayed, even though neither of us are big. We're both fairly short. He's also muscular and lean... I'm more... shall we say... 'womanly' =D

Small showers are bad enough for one person let alone two (and one growing inside) =P. We were staying at my mum's house for the weekend, and her shower is too small, with a shower shelf that makes moving hard too =P ARGH, I'd hate not to be able to wash my hair =[ I don't see it as a big deal, but if he's available I do prefer it. It's nice to have his body warmth once the water stops, too, I get cold easily. lol =]

=O You don't have a shower? I don't think I could deal with that =P Have you ever tried to squeeze two people comfortably into a bath? I have. It didn't work too well. lol. Thanks for your comment Denise =D

Haha, I don't have to ask why, I completely understand that - it's always odd when we have friends come around to stay and we want to have a shower. It's not like they don't know that we are, they know, but it seems odd to have them out in the house while we shower together =P And I know it's completely different when it's actually your children =] Plus, it gets to be a special treat when they aren't around ;) Thanks for your response! =D Have a great day.

Thanks for interesting & encouraging comments. Your guess is correct - we do avail each & every opportunity which comes our way to enjoy ourselves any day any time. =D :):)

You're very right, Deepak, I am very lucky and I consider myself so every day =] I know a lot of people are less fortunate in a lot of areas, including relationships and time with their partners. I'm sure the two of you make the most of every opportunity you have, though, and that's what really matters =D

=D Good question, and I'll answer it first, lest I get to the end and forget =P Yes, I tend to sleep in his body-groove in the bed, and using his pillow while cuddling my own. That side smells more like him, and before we got together, I always slept on the right, but I had to compromise and take the left when I moved in, so it feels better there anyway =D Oh how much I wish I had one of those water heaters you've described. We're always last to get in the shower at our place, so we normally have the least hot water out of everyone *sob* lol. I agree that it's more special when there's some time between, and especially for the two of you, when it's your only 'adult time' =] We dance in the shower too! But we normally make music ourselves, because we don't have a powerpoint or close-by music maker here. At my family's house there's a cd player in the bathroom, though, so that's always nice =D Thanks for your great response & question Meholl! =D Mal.

I definitely wouldn't call my friends conservative, which is why I found it so odd =P Normally their open to these things but at first mention of the joint-showers, they seemed taken aback. I'm glad that you and your partner do this together. It is a lot of fun =D

Ouch! I used to always bump my hip into the soap-holder, when I was getting used to showering with another occupant. It's certainly not pleasant, but I do love the showers that don't result in accidents together =P

it really not pleasant... it makes me cranky... but its better if the shower room was big... you can do whatever you want with your hubby and stay longer...

I agree, to each their own, and if you enjoy it, then all the power to you =D I hope that you do find a partner who you will enjoy showering with and spending time with =] (And someone who will make you smile more than ever =P) Mal.

your welcome. I hope I have shed light to you upon this matter. how long have you been together?

We're nearing 2 years together.

It's a shame that your wife isn't as comfortable with it as you are, but that she allows it a few times a year is wonderful - lucky you =D It is very sensual, and I enjoy it very much. I understand the whole 'boyfriend' thing, and that in many cultures and generations it is not appropriate for us to even touch let alone do anything else that we do, of course we don't feel this way, and have been together for a few years now and are very comfortable and happy with how we live =] Thank you for your concern, though. I believe that my partner will be my life-long partner, although I know others may argue differently. I also do not plan on marrying, but I do plan on enjoying many more showers in our time together =D Thanks greatly for your input, and have a wonderful day! Malyck

You can cook chocolate cakes and assorted sweets and you're without partner? *shock* No laughter here, genuine surprise =] Well make sure to shower together when you do *thumbs up*

*Is blinded by the rouge cheeks* Argh I hate laundry, I steer clear of that area of 'domestication' lol. Nothing wrong with skipping the odd heart beat or two. It'll probably stay like that, too, I know my man and I still get excited about the prospect of a shower together =]

You should see some of my other threads in the cooking interest section. I know I posted quite a few things there. Yea and also some on cleaning/laundry tips. Wait a sec... *blush* The thought of showering with a partner does make the heart skip and it turns the face completely red. )**(

It's wonderful that you're healing, although it is a shame that showering (with another) is a trigger. It's great that you are in/getting in control, though, so many kudos to you =] Thank you for responding, even to a touchy subject for you. Mal.

=] It sounds to me like you should get yourselves a bigger shower =D It sure it a lot of fun, and like I said, even in small showers, it feels odd being in their alone =P Then again, we find it fun to push each other into the cold walls... And it can lead to some more fun elsewhere =P

LOL. That's the same with me, I don't need to stretch my arms back to wash my own hair anymore, he does it for me, and I'm more than happy to do the same for him. If that's not team work, then i don't know what is =P

haha, the childish side of things is how we are in the shower as well. he pushes the door open so I get the cold air or something before pulling me under the hot water, and we spend the whole time laughing (or giggling rather) and being silly =D Good fun. I would love a shower like you described as well! Two shower heads, lots of room - pleasureville of all showers =P

It is a good thing to get to know one another better, I agree. I've 'learnt' a lot about my man just from our showers. And it's fun to kiss under the warm water, and have it run over our mouths =D We laugh a lot in the shower.

Aww, it's a shame that you guys don't have that time out to do this. I recommend that if you're both awake and somewhat energetic (or even not), when the kids are asleep, that you have a nice relaxing hot shower together before bed. Even if you can't make a habit out of it, it should be a great time to unwind =D Malyck.