Do you have boys or girls?

Hi there friend mirita. I do have a boy and a girl who are only one year and 4 months apart. :D They seems best of friends and I am so happy for that. Yes they fight too, yet when I told them so say sorry, they shyly hug together and tickled to laughter after they hugged each other. Furthermore, my hubby and I planned no more for additional kids.LOL A perfect pair is enough for us. Though my parents always telling us to make more. Ouch! Yeah I guess 2 boys or 2 girls is better because they can relate each other yet what I had seen on my kids relations are great because they seem to love each other well. Ohh well, maybe their closeness depends on us as parents who brought them up in good nature though.:D

I have a 5 year old daughter and a almost 2 year old son. They get along fine. They love eachother. I wouldn't have it any other way. I am glad I have my girl and my boy. They are two different characters, but I love that about them.

I have an older sister, and we didn't always get along. I think it depends on the family. Some families both brothers and sisters adore each other and hate to be apart. Other times you see siblings that can't stand each other. I have two boys, 2 years apart and they sometimes fight, but they cannot survive without each other..lol. I always wanted a girl, but in the end, I couldn't imagine one of my boys not being a boy. I am glad I had 2 boys.

Hi Mirita We are same. I have also 2 boys who are 4 years apart. They are now ages 19 and 15. They get along well too especially on toys when they were little kids, and now on computer games and play station. I also wanted to have a girl before because I can rely on girls when it comes to housekeeping. But now I am contended just to have my 2 boys around. They share with toys and games, and clothes too.

I kind of disagree! I know i got along heaps better with my brother than i did with my sister - there are 4 years between my sister & 1, we just didn't get along, she bugged me & copied me which i hated. There are 6 years between my brother & i & we get along great, always have. He was always a good kid, easy to get along with & nothing has changed. I'm pretty sure my brother & sister got along well too while we were younger & up until now - they're 2 years apart. Maybe it has something to do with how you raise your children & what values you give them as to how well they get along with siblings! I would like my daughter to have a baby brother but if that's not to be, then it's ok if we have another girl. I just think 2 girls will always bicker so maybe 1 of each is good or 2 boys might work better!

I am lucky to have four children, the first is a boy and he is now nine and the younger three, aged three, two and one are all gorgeous girls! I think my son would have liked to have a brother but he is happy to have his sisters and he looks after them well - he has always said he will be their protector so watch out in their teens for any boys who want to go out with them!!! I think that having two boys and two girls would be optimum but I do like the way my family has turned out and they all play together well and they all have jobs around the house. I wouldn't want my family to be any different to how it is now, they are perfect for me.

I have all girls. My stepdaughters don't live with me but I love them like my own. I never had the opportunity to have a boy, and sometimes I regret it, but I am very blessed to have what I have. I think either way, kids are just a blessing. My brother and I are two years apart, we used to fight like cats and dogs, but now we are very very close. We talk to each other daily and for a year, we were roommates. Of course we drove each other crazy, but it was fun.

I think having the same gender when the children are young is certainly useful provided the age of each child is within a couple of years.Automatically they've got a built in friend to play with.Where as,if the genders were opposite that wouldn't neccessarily be the case.

First of all my only concern wen having kids was if they were healthy. I have a daughter aged 7 and a son aged 3,5 and another son who is 2,5months old. I must say that my daughter and son can really get along with each other too. They like to play together all the time, so I don't think it matters if they are a boy or girl

I have a girl of 9 who badgers me all the time about a little sister until recently she has stopped. For me though I would love to have a boy next time around but I enjoy growing the girl. Well my brothers were the ones who took care of me when I was younger and we get on very well - all of us. You see i was the little princess among the princes and got away with alot of things.

I have two boys that are 17 months apart. They are pretty close, but they are ultra competitive too! I also have two girls. The girls are 5 years apart. They don't have much in common obviously. All three of the kids dote on their baby sister though. They are all very protective of her. I don't think either scenerio is better or worse.

yeah i agree with your point of view whereas i feel if you would have one boy and a girl that would have been better. your family would have completed. a brother always need a sisters love and a sister always needs a brother's love. both have their own pros and cons and definitely if you have only sons or daughters the family remains incomplete.

I think I see it both ways actually. First off, I have two boys who are almost exactly two years apart. I was so glad to have boys. For some reason, I secretly hoped not to have any girls. Anyway, my younger son is severely autistic, so I can't really relate to my boys having anything in common other than gender. But, overall, I would agree that two of the same gender can make for a very close relationship. On the flip side, I had only one other sibling-- an older brother. I think sometimes when there is a boy and a girl, it can help with understanding the opposite gender better as a whole.

I have 2 boys, and one girl. I had my oldest son young, I was only 18 he's 9 know. Then I met my husband and we had a girl she's now 4, he wanted one more. So I said that I would have one more but we had to do it right away. 2 months after I had my daughter I was prego a new eggo! He is now 3. My youngest son and daughter being one 1yr. and 9 days apart, has made them like best friends. I stay at home with the kids, and it's good to not have to worry about them getting lonely. My 9 yr. old seems to be the one left out, of course with the age difference, he's happy about that!! No more for me I am all done!!

I fully agree with you.Its just the parents selfishness that we think we should have a boy and a girl.The poor kids are often lost.As their interests are totally different.

I don't agree or disagree, because I don't know what it is like to have either. I don't have any kids yet, and probably won't for a while. I do want at least one boy and one girl, and am hoping to have 3 or 4 kids total.

i dont know persobally if i disagree or agree with you for i dont know personally fo rm yself on which is better to have.. i have a 6 year old daughter and i have twins on the way.. we ent for an ukltrasound and was told one is aboy and she was guessing the other was a girl for the umbilicol cord kept getting in the wya.. i go next week for another ultrasound so that ican have my answer on the girl or boy? for me i am hiping they are both boys for the reason that they are so far apart from my daugter that they will be abkle to like oyu say relate to one another better. my daughter wants one boy and oe girl. she says shes going to share everything etc etc she says it but she doesnt realize how long until her little sister ewil be able to play wiht her.. lol. ill be happy with whatever they are . bt wasier stands both boys would be nice...

I agree. I have 2 girls and right now they are still too young to play with each other. Oldest is 2 and youngest is 3 months. My husband wants a little boy and if I do have a little boy next time I would like another little boy. If I have alittle girl we will probably stop after that. For as long as I can remember I only wanted 2 a little boy and a little girl but I am happy that my girls will always have each other to go to.