You are pregnent, but you are not ready! You decision?
By leha1512
@leha1512 (81)
Brunei Darussalam
September 11, 2007 4:29am CST
This stuation ever happened to somebody, even you are married. How do you feel, you are still schooling, and still love to enjoy, and then you are pregnent? what kind of decision that you make? Most of commonly decision they make, they will abort the baby. Is there another way that we can do? I mean there is anothey way to open your heart to accept all this thing? What I would like to say is, save the baby! Baby is the greatest gift from God. Is there other way?
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6 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
11 Sep 07
I would get an abortion. It has nothing to do with an open heart. I don't want kids and I refuse to carry a pregnancy and risk my health and well-being.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
13 Sep 07
What "stupid things" are you accusing me of doing, exactly? Are you saying it's supid of me to not want children?
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@leha1512 (81)
• Brunei Darussalam
12 Sep 07
Thanks for sharing. I know you feel it ever happened to me. I tried to do alot of stupid things but, in the end my plan to do abortion is failed. At last I gave birth my baby, slowly I open my heart to accept. It takes time anyway. Thanks. Good luck for your life
@leha1512 (81)
• Brunei Darussalam
15 Sep 07
Hello my dear friend, please try to read again my paragraph. I said 'I' not 'YOU'. I just told what I did in my past time when I was pregnent. I am here not to judge you, I respect your desicion, its your not mine. It is open dicussion. Thank you for understanding.
@Hawaiiblue (422)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 07
hi leha1512, if that happen at me. i think i will ask my girlfriend to abort the baby. because me and my girlfriend not ready to have it and we no money to buy milk for baby and many....
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@fibonacciZZZ (488)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 07
save the baby..
do not abort it because if you do,you're a killer
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
11 Sep 07
i had been in the situation, but i'm not married, and my ex-boyfriend didn't want to have the baby. at last, i lose it. frankly, i feel regrets about it.
if i were preganent, then i must save the baby, even i'm not married. i love baby very much, and i think i have no right to lose it.
Please think more about the baby in your body.
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
13 Sep 07
Well when I got pregnant I had actually just interviewed for a job in the public sector. I was devastated and prayed to lose the baby but I came around after the morning sickness was gone and now I love my child to bits. Well if the mother after having the child feels like sh ecannot cope could also go to an adoption agency, or to a couple who loves children but cant have any.
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
19 Sep 07
Yes, I know but my mother and I took a little girl who was three yrs old and at that time she could not even stand. She was so malnourished that her poor body was all bones. She is 14 now and giving problems but we are still glad we rescued her. Her parents were young and into parties so they locked the child in th ehouse for days unattended. People passed by heard the crying and we broke the door dow. The poor child! I can still smell the stench even to date. It would be better to give up the child than to allow him/her to suffer if you feel you cannot cope or are not ready for parenthood. But then the choice is always with the person who is pregnant. I refuse to condemn any one for their decisions they make even if they go against what I beleive after all you alone will deal with the conscience thing!
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
20 Sep 07
But if she gets an abortion, then there is no child to suffer regardless. Wouldn't taht be better than foisting some poor kid on someone else? The girl you found got lucky and ended up with a great family, but how often could that possibly happen? How many kids don't get found, don't get saved, end up dying, or worse, growing up in that filth to have serious mental problems?
