Do women really not get excited over good-looking men?

I don't very often however when I do I'll say something to my friend however if I'm with my hubby, I won't out of respect. I don't want to make him feel "less than" which he's not in no way shape or form. But yes I do look every now and then. I mean when I see a really good looking guy it's hard not to think "Wow. He's a good lookin dude."

Oh, yes, I look. I love a hot looking man. I do think a lot of women do look and think it's fine. They just get mad when their sig others do the same. I think it's a double standard. A lot of it might also boil down to insecurity. if the woman's sig other is looking then she might be looking at herself as less of a looker.

LOL thats actually a really good question cause you are SO RIGHT...I dont get it either to be honest with you cause I've even heard women "catcall" to a good looking guy yet like you said women seem to love yammering about men checkin women out etc etc..I know that I have on more than one occasion been stopped in my tracks when a hot lookin guy walks by...and I've stared and drooled too LOL any woman who says a gorgeous (by their standards since we all have different beliefs as to what is gorgeous) guy doesnt catch her eye IMO is full of it....

Girl I have looked at a man and acted no different than a worker at a construction site. Yes I have looked at a man and thought as well as said many things. Let me see a nice built guy in some faded blue jeans facing away from me, and I will make him blush, let me tell ya. :oP What is worse about us women is the fact we don't just look, comment and go on, oh no we take that permanent snap shot that stays with us for life. Then we can look back and still comment more on him. LOL And I tell ya something else, the older women get the worse they are at it. My own mother and mother in law both are worse then I am and have walked up to men just to tell them how good looking they are.

I don't now about there being many, but I'm one of the few who can be a bit indifferent. I mean sure, I go people-watching out in malls, or in restauraunts (of course I'll be shopping or eating too! I'm not that creepy lol)...and I admire beauty as much as the next person, but by the end of the day...there's nothing to hold my attention to particular people. Unless I've spoken with them, of course. I'm not calling those who remark and discuss beauty amongst themselves shallow...I'm not completely indifferent to this regard. I admire models like Dita, or Apnea..or an actor like Johnny Depp and could carry on a decent conversation about them...but I don't do this frequently. I need a little something more to catch my interest. Sure, I'll notice someone if I find them attractive, but it's a rare person who captivates my attention for longer than a minute if I don't know them. *shrugs* I always thought I was weird 'cause of it, but you know..maybe not? I have no idea.

I've never been one who goes crazy when I see a good-looking guy. I mean, if I see one I may think "he's cute", or whatever. But it's not like I get excited or anything like that. I only get all hot and bothered when I know the person already and we have great chemistry. But never have I gotten like that for a stranger.

Oh yes. If I see a good looking man I stop and look and I think , Yummy!Maybe it is a generation thing. My mom said that a woman does look but she doesn't let on that she is checking a guy out.I am more like the guys in the movie Broken Hearts Club. They would say "Meanwhile" when a good looking guy walked by. It was guys because they are gay.I love that by saying meanwhile , everyone can stop and see the vision walk by.I don't understand why women get upset when their guy looks, just looks at a beautiful woman pass by.Maybe because my mom would point them out to my dad.

Hi lecanis, You are not alone trust me lol. When I see a good looking man it's almost embarassing lol. I go beet red, I can't stop smiling and I usually do something stupid while captivated by their hotness lol. One time I walked by a hot guy, my face went red, I couldn't stop smiling and I ran right into a shopping cart, talk about embarassing. Now that I have gotten married all the hot guys that would get me that embarassed have seem to of disappeared. Either that or they don't effect me as much anymore becaus emy hubby is the one for me! Love & Hugzz, Your Friend, PurpleTeddyBear.

I have no problem - its an ego thing really I think. If your self esteem is low then you're going to feel jealous - otherwise you know that they're just appreciating beauty - like a flower, architecture, painting etc. There's nothing wrong with you. I guess its guys who look because they're scoping out their snack to come back to later when they're hungry when its a problem.

well that is a thing which u all women can answer well,,cuz me a guy and ya obv gets very excited in seein a hot girl,,and even i have has this doubt till now,,,do women get excited and discuss about guys passin by or somethin like we guys generally do,,as every one knows about that.. thnx tc

From my experience I believe you are correct in your premise Lecan. Heck all I have to do is look at my exes exes or the people my exes finally parasited, (I meant "landed") on (pretty boys, thugs and handsome but very empty vases). Also my encounters on the ever mind-rotting dating scene also tend toward this. Don't get me started on former female co-worker's conduct toward the better looking guys. So, at least in my observation, yes plenty of women of prime ages can be superficial, despite delusions to the contrary.

I dont really think I do unless its leading to intimacy with my boyfriend or if I am in a really lovey mood. I think its more about the physical aspects and you can seem them more on girls then boys. On girls you can see their boobs and curves and what not, on boys its more of a basic perimeter.

I don't think they really get excited about it, but probably more of interested to know and be friends. I wonder if that's the same with men?

of course women look at good looking men. its just that usually men look at girls's a**!. while women tend to look just the face or the body[if he is hot!]

A few weeks ago I was thinking to myself that I haven't seen a guy that pops my cork in a long time. I thought maybe that when you hit the big Five O that you lose the ability to notice. That theory was quickly gone when I was in the building of one of my clients and I passed this hunka hunk coming down the hall. He was tall, great build and had curly hair. What an adonnis. He was like fried chicken...finger lickin good.

It's actually hard NOT to look at a good looking man.. just like the other morning I was coming back from my morning powerwalk and slow jog and I saw this middle aged man, maybe early 40s, with no t-shirt on, walking his dog, he was all cut-up meaning had a six pack and muscular upper body.... my eyes were all over him LOL and I'm sure everyone else around me did the same thing. I admit that I do look at good looking men all the time and i don't see anything wrong with it. It's when men start looking at you and making whistling sounds and trying to chat you up when you're walking by, now thats when I start to hate men for doing that!

Hey I love looking at good looking guys and yes I do say to myself... whoa he's hot. I think what most women object to, me included is that men are much more vocal and cruder about it than women are. I might whisper something to a girlfriend about "I wouldn't kick that out of bed" but I would never say that out loud to anyone else. I don't mind and find it rather flattering if a guy looks in my direction but I really hate it when they yell out at me and make a loud comment about a part of my anatomy. Like they honestly think that is going to get my attention? Like I would even consider going out with a loudmouth twit who has the manners of a neanderthal? Get real! If the guy looked like Johnnie Depp and did that it would immediately turn me off. No nothing wrong with you hon, we all like a good looker. :D

I get excited by a good looking guy, but I have to admit that most of the guys I think are attractive get a "huh?" response from everyone else. Except for Johnny Depp who is incredibly gorgeous and everyone seems to know it.

men look at women women look at women.this is what i have seen.take care dear

No, I don't respond to a man's outward appearance in that way. If I see a man who has nice features I wait to see what his personality is like; if I like his personality then he is handsome. Maybe it's because I don't really dwell on looks and I never refer to a man as "hot" or "sexy". I personally don't want to be called "hot"...I'd much rather be called beautiful but not because of my looks, because of my personality. I don't really understand how some girls can make major judgements about men based on their outward appearance. That's just my thought on the matter.