Have you ever been so MAD that you just wanted to call it QUITS??

I have, many times. In fact, almost every day, for 32 years, and 10 months. It's a never ending battle in my house. In fact, I say those things, almost on a daily basis. My husband just laughs it off, like it's no big deal, but to me, I really want out. If I'd have had lots of money, it would have been over, many years ago.

I have been very careful in what I say especially where such are concerned. In such cases, often, I would keep calm and take the silent approach. This was a lesson I have learnt. There was once I did it on impulse without knowing he was waiting for the moment.

Yes, Lorie we get mad at our other half, but we say it out of anger that we don't want to be with that person. If we love the person, we can't help but to go back to the person. so calm down, it will be alright. Maybe you need some space from each other?

I have never been that mad at my wife that I wanted to call it quits. I have always felt that we could work things out. She has felt the same way and now we have been married for 31 years. It is rare that we have a disagreement now and our relationship gets better each year.

I usually get out of the house or away from my spouse until I cool off/and or cry myself out. I'm pretty laid back most of the time, so when I get angry or remove myself from the scene, he knows he's really blown it! Naturally, I'm always right! lol! I try not to let the sun go down on my anger. Haven't always been successful at that, but most of the time. I also pray about it and that helps me a lot.

Yes i have, not with the relationship im in now though. And im sure we all have at one time or another. No, i usually dont act on these impulses. That usually only gets me in trouble. I always wait until i calm down to react. Just try to talk things out and see if it helps. If talking to your significant other about your problems doesnt seem to help then maybe you need to try something else. Good luck =)

Worst things are said in heated moments, we find we are backed in a corner and most will come up fighting and we do go for the partners jugular whether not physically but certainly emotionally and we will use threats and when we become exasperate and pushed to our limits we will, like a snake or a scorpion STRIKE! Oh I have done it many many times before and I have threatened to move out because that was my ultimate weopen to use against my partner, it worked but after an hour or so you cool down and realize that it was just a threat and you start to look at it logically! We can cut off our noses to spite our face in this situation so never make drastic decisions when you are not in a calm state. hope that helps my friend!

Honestly, I normally get all mad and start throwing a fit, threatening to leave, etc. Then eventually I remember we love each other, take a deep breath and sit in here quietly waiting for him to apologize.

I have been in the past but I have learned to control myself since I know that the feeling usually passes. I did not have any situations like that with my recent ex though!

I have. A lot of things happened early on in our relationship and it seemed that harder I tried to make things work, the more resistence I got from them and the more grief they caused me, So I definitely was angry and upset and definitely did want to just say ok, fine, that's it. However I didn't. Somewhere along the way things changed and we're definitely a lot happier now than we were then. I just had to remind myself that impusively calling it quits like I had wanted too so many times would probably just upset me and the situation more in the long run.

I react right then and there. And the thing that sucks is I am serious as a heart attack, and my spouce doesn't believe me. I have wanted him to leave for a really long time, and he just won't. I told him the other day that I wish I had never marrie dhim, and he asked me if I was serious and I said yes. Then he just goes about his business acting like nothing ever happened.

Not so much anymore. These days we dont get that mad. We do occasionally but we have learned to just shut up for a while. Then we talk about it later or just forget about it. Now my first husband was a screamer who yelled at me for just about anything under the sun. After 17 years and three kids I could not stand it any longer. He was a master at verbal and pshchological abuse. I could even see how it affected the kids. So I finally decided that since he and I could not talk about anything it was time to leave. I have learned these days that most of the things my current husband and I get irritated at are not, in the long run, that important. We have learned to just shut up.

Nope. We actually very rarely ever fight. AT PEACE WITHIN ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

Oh, texas, yes I have! And I have gone all the way and called it quits, too. I have always been impulsive-often to my own detriment. I do believe that when things become so heated that it gets to that point, it is time for a serious discussion. ost of the time things can be worked out, but in many cases it's best to let it go.

Often unfortunatly. we have been married for 35 year I love him dearly he is loving kind talented smart and can test my patients at times to distraction. I can also test his. sometime we yell sometime throw tantrums. we try not to threaten and we wait till the feel changes