You love him, he loves you not

I think you should just stop it or just confront him on how you really feel with that kind of treatment he is doing with you. Based on my experience right now i am in that kind of situation wherein i just become a crying shoulder of the guy i love the most. And it really hurts me a lot knowing that he treats me like that and he cannot return the love i can give to him. So what i did is just stop it not in the sense i will stop being his friend its just that i will just avoid him for a while until the pain heals and i have recover and forget the feelings i feel for him.

I've had a few guys do this.If he's flaky now it's just going to get worse.Give him one last chance if he backs out again walk away, and find someone who is worth your time.

I think you need to talk to him, and ask him that why is he doing like that. Is it because of any financial pressure or because of just fear. You need to find out, and if still there is no proper response, that means the guy is a loser. you need to move on.

I think this guy is not worthy of your affection, don't waste your time with him. You deserve better than him. Goodluck.

I've been in this situation before and i ended up getting hurt. Someone who continually cancels on you is not worth your time or affection. He cannot think too much of you if he keeps changing his mind about things and doesn't make time to see you.

You deserve better than that. No one deserves to be treated that way. I would definitely stop wasting time on him & go on. I've been there & done it. It's alot better than wasting years waiting for him.

I'd just quit it, he's wasting your time and he's not worth it. Oh by the way, it happens in vice versa too, I'm all too familiar with it (or it was a pretender and backstab situation). Either way, its not worth it. And if he's treating you like this now, imagine how the relationship will play out.

yeah right! I'm not really sure if he likes me. There were times he's treating me like a princess & yet he's dating others. It' so disturbing that I wish I never known him... It's just a plain pain but I love him so much it hurts!