Why girls always asking what's our stuffs? (Boys Stuffs)

Philippines
September 20, 2007 12:19pm CST
...while we (guys) don't even bother to ask those girl things. So tell me everyone, why girls really like to mingle with boy's stuffs and ask about our things? It's kinda irritating whenever they want to know like, what kind of shaver i am using, the brands of my perfume, where did i bought my shirt, my shoes, why my phone was off the whole day and etc... GGrrrrrrrr what the heck? hehe I mean like, for me i never bother to ask girls about their stuffs and just let them. So why some girls don't just do the same thing? Is it just their nature? What ya think everyone? Anyone can tell?
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14 responses
• United States
20 Sep 07
Personally, I have never asked any of those questions! It seems like they are obsessive compulsive or just really bored to ask such stupid questions!!! I think you need to look for different kids of girls :)
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@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
21 Sep 07
No, why should you advice him to go for naother girl? what if your guy ask you such question? How would you feel? Good or irritating? The fact about those who asked such question is that, they admire (ed) your outfits (stuffs), meaning you're looking perfect. and when they proceed with the question "where did you bought this or that" its simply means you should keep up with the very shop or store.
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• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Hi there to both of you brookehaun and codgel, What you guys up to now? Anyway, i just come up with this... Girls loves me and i do love them indeed. If sometimes, We feel bad bcoz of them, Still we (guys) cannot live WITHOUT them. Thanks for the response guys!
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
20 Sep 07
If she asks about his stuff, she's trying to get to know him If he asks about her stuff, he's being nosy I say its just another double standard, but this is more of the whimsical side talking. I'm guessing its for small talk, but some golddiggers like asking a lot of questions revolving around stuff, like what you own and how much you own. Just saying.
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@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
20 Sep 07
Cause we are curious thats why... I have a lot of guys who ask me questions, I don't fit over it or anything like that I just simply answer the question but if it is a very personal question though I just say I rather not answer.. It's always a vise versa thing...
• United States
21 Sep 07
well yes I do.. Just the other day I was asked what kind of body soap do I use... I though geesh Dove....lol So it does go both ways, Guys ask women such things too...
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• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Yeah i do agree that it always a vice versa thing. However, i don't think that i am alone who feels this way. I don't really bother asking girls about their stuffs but there's also guys doing it. And same thing with the girls, i know that there are some girls who really likes asking boys about their stuffs and there are some girls who don't bother as well. There's always a vice versa thing, thanks wisconsin the DOVE Model.. hehe Godspeed!
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
21 Sep 07
I guess you understand what it takes. keep up answering them that shows your level of understanding and eassy going even with legacy. I beleive you look more model whenever they ask you such question.
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
21 Sep 07
Hey first of all do not catagorise such kind of people only in girls Ok..!! Its not always girls who just go out fo their way to know every thing..!! I know many boys who just want to know every thing about girls!! Like which perfume we use ,which brand clothes we (girls) wear and even what brand nailpolish....... "nailpolish" can you belive that!!! Now I know that it is so irritating when people go just out of their way to know about you!! I am a girl too and I never go that way long to know about you guys ...I don't even show any such interest to my own brothers stuff!! But I love to get his opinion on making choices while shopping for clothes for me!! So if he shows some concern about what brands I wear its ok..!! But not with every one else!! I discuss such things with my girlfriends and sometimes some very close guy friends too its no big problem when that guy is you closest friend you are just being open to him!! And another thing when people just can't stop themselves from asking you- "who called?, whom were you talking to?, whose number is that? etc....". Thye just get on nerves and end up making me hyper..!! I just can't stand such people who wants to know even whom I am talking too, I mean c'mon please some times why can't these people leave me alone and mind their own buisness..? And yes this time boys you won...no boy ever asked me who was calling me except my brother and father!!! None of my boyfriends ever asked me who callled up and any such questions..!! :)
• India
23 Sep 07
He he ...I am as calm as I can be!! thanx :)
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• Philippines
22 Sep 07
WOH HOHO! hey hey hehe Stay calm my dear, im harmless! lol Anyway, i just came up with this based on my experience and yeah same here. If my Close Friends are doing those things on me, then i find it ok as they have known me so well and they know what things really makes me annoyed and all that. Thank you for your response! Keep it up and Godspeed!
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• United States
20 Sep 07
Those are girls who need to get a life. They are bored. They have nothing to do. The best ones to date are the ones who have their own interests.
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@miamilady (4910)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Yep, another mistunderstanding between the different genders. Most women think that a way to show love or caring is to show an interest in what's going on in your life. Some guys don't get that. When a woman feels that showing interest is a way of showing affection and the guy doesn't show the same kind of interest, her feelings will get hurt. I spent a long time denying that men and women are SO different. I finally woke up. We do have some basic differences. Of course not ALL women act this way and not ALL men fail to act this way, but I think that the way we show affection for eachother is truly different. That's why relationships are so challenging. It's like we speak two different languages. A book that helped me to understand this is Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. You may want to give it a read, if you are interested in this topic.
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Very well said miamilady, Thank you for the wonderful response! If i can just choose more best responses, i would rather mark this one of yours also. I gave you Positive Rate my dear! Thanks for this! Keep it up!
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
20 Sep 07
I guess that is the way some girls are, get use to it. Ladies want to know everything about their guy, especially if she like him.
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@AmbiePam (93740)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I haven't a clue. I have honestly never been around girls who did that. I know I never did. Maybe it's just where we live.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
21 Sep 07
I think the one who is closer enough to u has a right to ask u anything anytime, what's wrong if she wants to know? And when u meet her so often , what else will she talk?
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@ggaaiill (196)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
I ask a friend similar questions way back. And this is her response. Usually she only ask that questions to those boys whome she is attracted, to start a conversation, hehehe. She also mention that she asked that question, to determine if some guys are vane. According to him some guys even bring some face powder.
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• Malaysia
20 Sep 07
When she talk to you in that such manner mean she like you and care about you. Actually she want you kiss, but you belated in making reaction to her...if you kiss her with your 'stunt' kiss on her lips, she could no longer ask you or no time to mumbles about your stuffs...HA! HA! HA! HA! HA!...VASHSTAMPEDE, you are the great luck guy on earth!!! :::michael:::
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• Philippines
22 Sep 07
She wants to kiss me? Really? You think so? OMG! She is my auntie! LOL (just kidding) hehe Oooohhhhh thank you my friend for that compliment.. Well, sometimes its hard to be with girls, but we CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT them in our lives INDEED! And living without them would be like a total disaster! Godspeed Michael...
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
I never asked stuff or etc. On my part i hate boys asking anything about my stuff. There are boys also like that. One of my ex bf before. His so very curious about what stuff that i have. If i have a lap top or if i updated my cellphone. IF i will buy a latest model and etc.. IF he saw me wearing a jewelries he will ask if it is real and how much i bought for it. OOZZZzzz.. annoying thing. so discouraging. The way his asking is not to admire or to appreciate of the things that i have. I can see to his facial expressions everytime i said no, i dont have a lap top or i am not particular of mobile lates model. Feels like his disappointed and turn off thing. LOL! Honestly i don't like people to notice what stuff or new stuff that i have. BUt ofcourse its depend also how they react. There are some people appreciate and admire small things. Its a different matter.
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• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Yeah i understands, it's really different matter my dear. Anyway, i wanna say thank you for the nice response here. And yeah bydway, before i forgot, i think your ex bf really need a life. LOL (kidding) Keep it up my dear!
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I never asked any of that stuff. I don't care where guys buy their shirts or what kind of shaver they use. Why would I? I find men often ask me questions I would never think of asking them or even another woman. They think nothing of asking me my bra size. I would never ask a similar question to a man about the size of his body parts. Maybe I am just different but I honestly never asked any of those things to any guy. Now I have to read all the responses to see if I am the lone hold out or if most women are like me. lol.
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• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Apparently here, most of the girls thinks the same way with yours. Thanks for the response my dear! Keep it up.
@jhanna (334)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
Well, that makes us girls different from you guys. The female specie is more keen to details. It's not that we are making you irritable or what. It's just our way and our nature. Please don't be bothered by us otherwise this world would not as exciting and colorful without us. There are even lots of things we don't like about you guys , but that would be a different story.
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