why is it people like to fall in love and end up getting hurt?

I am also asking that question and found out the answer that that is life. It is part of our life. You may think why some people ending up getting hurt and others ending up living with their partner happily ever after, it is because there is no such a perfect thing in this world. But we can always cope up with this if we learn from our mistake and we correct it. I think getting hurt is already part of love, and you cannot erase or prevent it. Love can make you happy, but there is also a consequence, it can also make you sad and upset if you do not know how to handle it. So as much as possible, if you love, do not put your life everything to that person. You should also retain some love to yourself. That's it. Have a great day!

I don't think people like to end up getting hurt. It just happens. People fall in love again hoping this time it will work out... but it generally doesn't and again we go!

I think so too...its really tiring with that kind of pattern but that's life it is a packaged deal when you start to love expect also to get hurt because not all the time you will feel joy there's also sorrow sometimes but its up to the both of you on how to handle that sorrow. But if ever you don't want to get hurt again then don't dare to love again.

what ian means must be a "DeadZone" area. I've read about this in book of "50 ways to find true love". It's where the most fragile phase for a couple in pre-marriage or marriage time. If couple can solve any obstacles in here, the relation would be more likely survive and in case, it could be stepping to a more deep-relation phase. This is where the hurt/pain really shows its teeth.

It can be tiring, but when one day you find the love of your love that doesn't break your heart, you'll realize that all the heartaches that you had to endure before was worth it simply because without giving up, you've finally found that person. You'll realize that love is worth it. Besides, I think that by going through lots of relationships, you get to know SO MUCH more about yourself and what you need from a lifetime partner and that's a plus. ;-D

why this is so? it's because most of the people of today don't take it seriously. or they think that love is somewhat like a game that if you don't wanna play with it anymore, then let go.but it's not the way it is. because love is a very serious thing, it can inspire or the way it round. or maybe people that is involve in it overlooked the very basic thing to think before entering into relationship, like for example knowing or determining first, is love or infatuation that they felt? it's the basic but it is one thing that can minimize people of getting hurt or even prevent. have a nice day to all.. thanx for reading... clark

its not true for all, actually i dont like to fall in love, or really deeply in love. and what is love anyway it is still a big question ,is it just a feeling, if it is just romantic love then i know im not up for it, not ready to crash and burn/

I think it's our purpose on this world. Besides falling inlove is always a great feeling one can ever experienced. Why it ends up in hurting, that i don't know. I think there's no particular reason on why it is like that but i believe that everything happens for a reason. When loving someone it is always associated into hurting because you will not get hurt if you don't have the feeling of attachment to that particular person. The pain you experienced from loving a person makes you a better person . It will make you grow more stronger and learn its lesson. It will help you. to have a better perspective in life. "If there's no pain no gain!"

there are 3 phases/stages of love.,most people who get tired are on their 2nd phase only., reply if you want to know more