spanking

I do not believe in spanking. I think it sends the wrong message. In this day and time I think taking away toys or privileges is much more effective.

I do not believe that spanking a children is the best way to discipline the children. For me, there are others way to discipline the children. Every children have a unique behavior and a unique attitude toward other. Spanking is not the answer, instead we need to show them the beauty of love and respect, so that she or he know what is a good sign of a good behavior. Beside that we need to show them what we are, if we show that we have a bad attitude, that is an example for them. Having a good parent is having a good children. We are the model of our children and we must show to them.

I do spank with a combination of restriction. I do'nt think there is anything wrong with spanking as long as it isn't abusive such as hitting in the face or anywhere else on the body and it doesn't leave marks. Spanking is a form of discipline, not a way to strike out. I always make sure that I do not discipline in anger. I wait until I am calm and can negate punishment without my personal feelings becoming involved. It is also explained before and afterwards as to why the punishment was doled out and there is understanding. My daughter is very well behaved and very respectful. However her friends who are not disciplined at home, they run the streets and don't treat people with respect. It is harder and harder to find kids these days that respect themselves or others.

I don't believe in spanking, I think it just teaches them that hitting is ok. I think time-outs or punishments are more effective.

I would say spanking is one of those punishments that you need to use when reasoning fails, and when they refused to listen, especially for young children. I mean those 12 years and below. But you cannot spank login into teenagers nowadays. You need alot of patience and try to put yourself in their shoes in order to understand what they are trying to put across.