lanhamst

@lanhamst (11)

United States • Age 48

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Do you ever feel like something is missing?

agregory13 @agregory13 (62) • United States 12 Oct 07

I feel like we can't get through 24 complete hours with out rolling our eyes, breathing a big sigh, or actually argueing about something. We have a good relationship or so I think and we have a wonderful son together and we both...

missing something

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lanhamst Everyday when you tell him how much you love him are you doing it because he doesn't know it, are you trying to make yourself believe it, or does it truely come from your heart? You can't just tell him you have to show him, and I don't mean "physically". Maybe...

19 Oct 07

Stay or leave

esantos @esantos (21) • United States 12 Oct 07

I have a friend who gets abused physically and mentally by her husband. He swore he would change many times. He still hasn't. Should she stay with him in hopes of his change or leave him.

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lanhamst Promising to change will not work, the only way he is going to change is through professional counseling. If he is not willing, then she should leave before the abuse gets worse.

19 Oct 07

Is it me, or do you think this is odd too?

Aurone @Aurone (4755) • United States 13 Oct 07

So I am home alone this weekend because my husband's parents bought a plane ticket for him to visit and didn't ask me to come along. I feel kind of hurt that they would ask my husband to come and completely ignore me, I wasn't...

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lanhamst I completely agree this is not only odd it is rude. I can't believe that your husband would accept the ticket and leave you at home.

19 Oct 07

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My husband and video games!

allenmatt @allenmatt (37) • United States 19 Oct 07

My husband plays video games all the time, it drives me crazy! He puts his chair directly in front of the TV and puts on his headphones and mic and completely ignores everything and everyone around him. He plays for hours upon...

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lanhamst My husband does not play video games but we have had discussions about people that we know that are addicted to them. My husband says that if a man would rather be glued to a video game instead of spending quality time with his family then his priorities are...

19 Oct 07

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Teenage Prenancy: Do you blame the parents for the children's mistakes?

Ms Michelle @lenapoo (678) • United States 27 Sep 07

This kind of came up today during a lunch discussion. One of my very good friends as well as my co-worker was saying how her niece was sixteen and she was pregnant. She was saying that kids are having babies younger and younger...

teenage pregnancy

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lanhamst I don't think you should blame the parents. As parents we try to teach our children right from wrong, but as they get older they are going to do what they want, no matter what we say or what they have been taught. By the time they become a teenager it is up to...

30 Sep 07

spanking

pkosher @pkosher (71) • United States 21 Sep 07

Do you believe in spanking your children? Why or why not?

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lanhamst I have two children (4 & 7). They both have had at least one spanking in their lives, but it was not nearly as effective as taking away that favorite toy or no TV. Three year olds do have privileges (toys, playing outside, playing with friends, TV, computer...

27 Sep 07

Which SEC team do you dislike the most?

lanhamst @lanhamst (11) • United States 24 Sep 07

As a UGA Bulldog fan which SEC team or coach do you dislike the most?

georgia bulldogs

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spanking

pkosher @pkosher (71) • United States 21 Sep 07

Do you believe in spanking your children? Why or why not?

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lanhamst I do not believe in spanking. I think it sends the wrong message. In this day and time I think taking away toys or privileges is much more effective.

24 Sep 07

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mothers...

free2lmao @free2lmao (230) • United States 23 Sep 07

What is your favorite thing about being a mother???

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lanhamst Feeling their little arms around my neck and hearing them whisper I Love You Mommy!

24 Sep 07

What would you think of her? Do you judge people by their looks?

Ms Michelle @lenapoo (678) • United States 23 Sep 07

If you were in a store and you were out with your family. One of your kids sees one of their friends from school and they say hey! is that your mom? You turn and look only to see more of a hooker. She has on some shorts so short...

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lanhamst No I would not approach her any differently, I would still be pleasant. But I agree as a mother there should be limitations on what you should wear in public. As mothers we are supposed to be role models for our children and other children who we come in...

24 Sep 07