How to win the heart of a girl you like and fancy?

India
September 22, 2007 4:56am CST
I like a girl in college very much.She is a bit different than other girls.I am attracted to her and I fancy her.How should I make her like me or win her heart.She is one of our friends which creates a bit of sticky situation. Please give me advice.
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@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
I posted this in my other blog and I would like it to share with everybody here in mylot. 19 ways to win a girls heart... 1. Hugs from behind. 2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other. 3. When standing, wrap your arms around her. 4. Cuddle with her. 5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING. 6. Write little notes. 7. Compliment her Honestly. 8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible. 9. Be super sweet to her. 10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams. 11. Comfort her when she cries. 12.Wipe away her tears 13. Love her with all your heart. 14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it). 15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her). 16. Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her! & DONT ever act diff in front of ur friends than u r when its just u and her!!!! 17. Take her for a long walk at night! 18. Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when its cold to comfort her and hold her close 19. NEVER LIE TO HER!!!!!! because then she will think everything you ever said to her was a lie, even "i love you".
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
22 Sep 07
And most of that is pretty good. But some women wont let you do certain things on that list to them. Other times, this isn't enough for them to choose you.
• Philippines
23 Sep 07
well, to the least you have expressed your care and thoughtfulness to her. if the girl does not appreciate some of those tips, well and good, as long as you have been true to yourself.
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Its kinna odd falling in love with friends because it is hard to express your feelings directly. However, most of the time relationship start in the circle of friends. I guess what you need to do is to be true to her, show what kind of person are you and then slowly make sure that she can feel that you have intentions in making a commitment with her. Let her feel that you want to be more than friends in the future, from there its you make your move to please her most of the times. Sense of humor could be a factor and being sensitive to her feelings might be useful.
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@cutebaby4 (196)
• India
23 Sep 07
Well first of all, be a man, and be bold enough to go and propose openly, Dont worry what the result will be, because at least you be feeling sad, that you never got to express your feelings, in case she liked you. But dont do it blankly, take herout, maybe for dinner or movie, and then propose to her.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Try telling her how you feel. Also show her what you can offer her. Don't try to be just a friend to her, you've got to be bold and stand out.
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Its kinna odd falling in love with friends because it is hard to express your feelings directly. However, most of the time relationship start in the circle of friends. I guess what you need to do is to be true to her, show what kind of person are you and then slowly make sure that she can feel that you have intentions in making a commitment with her. Let her feel that you want to be more than friends in the future, from there its you make your move to please her most of the times. Sense of humor could be a factor and being sensitive to her feelings might be useful.
• China
22 Sep 07
Please confess to her that you love her very much.Let her know your feeling about her.Let her watch your behavior in the future,let her decide if she accepts your love.Because you love her,you shouldn't play any tricks to win her heart.Just be sincere and polite,never hurt her.
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Its kinna odd falling in love with friends because it is hard to express your feelings directly. However, most of the time relationship start in the circle of friends. I guess what you need to do is to be true to her, show what kind of person are you and then slowly make show that she can feel that you have intentions in making a commitment with her. Let her feel that you want to be more than friends in the future from there its you make your move to please her most of the times. Sense of humorcould be a factor and being sensitive to her feelings might be useful.