having many relationships??
By anuj291
@anuj291 (575)
India
September 23, 2007 12:27pm CST
is having relationships again and again after ur break up and all,,not ethical,,i mean is it wrong??
one of my best frnds abandoned me cuz of this,,that i had started another realtion-that too 8 months after my breakup,,,do u think i am wrong,,,in tryin to find love again??
thnx
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4 responses
@NatashaG (100)
• United States
23 Sep 07
I don't think it's wrong personally, but I don't think you should jump straight into another relationship the second you break up with someone.. I have always had a lot of guy friends and so for me I would wait a week or so after a break up and then start talking to another person.. And sometimes it was less than that.. Especially if you really know the person and spend a lot of time with them. I actually started talking to my husband before my other boyfriend and I broke up. But we lived in different states and after the boyfriend and I broke up I moved back to the city my husband lived in.. But we didn't start officially dating until three weeks after I moved.. which would make it a month and three weeks after the other boyfriend and I broke up.. Kinda confusing but.. We have been together for two years now and married for one.. I don't think love or "like" should wait.. do what your heart feels.. not what everyone says you should do..
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@adityamandan (102)
• India
26 Sep 07
well all i can say is that once in your life you will meet the right person but till then keep enjoying the wrong ones!!!!! have fun
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
22 Nov 09
I don't think waiting 8 months to date again is too soon. I think that is a good long time and there is nothing wrong in not giving up hopes about finding the right kind of love. I miss being single because I have been married for too long and my relationships did last longer that I always had planned when I was dating.
I suppose it's wanting to be alone sometimes that I've missed the most. There is no me time once you start living with the people that you date but waiting a long time before dating again is not a bad idea at all. I think the waiting period should be from 6 months or more, that way you are less than likely to make the same mistake that you have made in the previous relationship because you'll have plenty of time to think and reason why things didn't work out in the last relationship before jumping into another one again.
@juniorance (250)
• India
23 Sep 07
i didn't mean that my dear friend . I am a typical malayali who believes that one girl for one guy. But it doesn't mean end of life , if ur relations break quite often, it means u have got some problems in making relations.So just find it n clear it . n also person whom u r choosing should also be gud , find a gud guy
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